I have every symptom listed for the chairi now what? God Bless YOU SUE
--- In ptc@yahoogroups.com, "frankienfriends" <frankienfriends@...>
wrote:
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> --- In ptc@yahoogroups.com, "Julie Pence" juleni@ wrote:
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> > Our niece Rebecca, who was 34 died this week and we attended her
funeral today. I did not know her well, as I have married into the
family she is from: she is not my niece by blood. She was a lovely
person from my few meetings with her.
> >
> > I asked today, her husband's stepmother, what caused her death.
Previous answers to this question from my husband and others in her
family were very vague.
> >
> > Her husband's stepmother said "it was something to do with her spine
and neck and head. She found out she had it when she saw a TV show
about it and recognized many of the symptoms".
> >
> > This startled me, and I asked 'was it Chiari?? If it was, that is
what I have."
> >
> > The stepmom, wasn't sure, but her eyes widened. She said 'wait
here', and went to get Rebecca's husband's dad, Jesse. Jesse told me
yes, that was what it was called. Jesse and his wife told me that
Rebecca had been to many doctors, even neurologists and no one could
identify her condition. Doctors and friends were beginning to believe
she was a hypochondriac.
> >
> > Then, she saw a show on the Discovery Channel, and had 16 of the 18
symptoms listed there. She ended up calling 'someplace in New York'.
> >
> > "The Chiari Institute?", I asked.
> >
> > Yes, they told me, that was it and she went there. This spring.
> >
> > Then Jesse and his wife got Rebecca's husband's real mom to come
talk to me. She knew more of the facts. Her name is Cheryl.
> >
> > Cheryl was surprised that I have Chiari; surprised I knew so much;
surprised I had been to The Chiari Institute, too.
> >
> > You might imagine the emotions that were churning within me at this
point. And the questions.
> >
> > Cheryl told me "there is a surgery for it, but they told her in
Cleveland that it is too dangerous to do it". Cleveland, I inquired?
Yes, Cheryl said "she went to the Cleveland Clinic, and that is the
first place they identified it - before she went to New York".
> >
> > I was aghast, but right there, in the church, at the funeral with
Rebecca's body only feet from us, I could not tell them.... how needless
her death....
> >
> > What happened, I inquired?
> >
> > Cheryl told me that everything was being affected by the Chiari:
pains and Rebecca's breathing; her ability to get around.
> >
> > I knew that, of course.
> >
> > "Her digestive tract was beginning to shut down". That was a new
one to me.
> >
> > "Her pituitary gland was no longer functioning, and her adrenal
glands were shutting down."
> >
> > I know, I told her - I have those things happening. The pituitary
sometimes gets squashed by the buildup of spinal fluid in the brain,
leading to empty sella syndrome. And it affects of course, the thyroid,
the adrenals, etc.
> >
> > **But I knew these things can be addressed!!!***
> >
> > "They think she had a seizure. We can't be sure. She was alone
when she passed away. The coroner is looking into it."
> >
> > I want to state here briefly, that Rebecca was a Christian and so am
I. I thank God, that I know she was not entirely alone in that moment.
I know that God was with her. I am soooo grateful for that.
> >
> >
> > It is incredibly hard for me to think.... Rebecca did not have to
die.
> >
> >
> > I struggled a bit with 'why didn't I know? I could have helped her
a lot sooner...' but that is the past, and we cannot go back there. My
heart is wrenched with the knowlege that here I was, in her extended
family, with the knowledge to give to her, but because of the denial,
the shame or whatever it is, her condition was kept quiet. My husband,
and I, never knew she had this situation. Last year - I could have
directed her to The Chiari Institute - much sooner! I was diagnosed at
TCI in December 2007... plenty of time to save Rebecca... but I must
remember that I am not in control of what I cannot have control over.
And I cannot go back in time. And I know she is now at peace.
> >
> > Rebecca was a lovely woman in her early 30's who was feisty, sweet
and tender with her children. She loved her family and was a devoted
wife and mother. She was talented, artistically, and was a beautiful
person to be with. She leaves behind a sweet man, her husband, and 4
beautiful little children, who will miss her terribly.
> >
> > When the time is right, I will try to communicate - that there is
help. The operation is worth it. And you don't have to die - BECAUSE
of the children. Her children must not suffer what she had to suffer,
if they are ever diagnosed with Chiari.
> >
> > Please pray for and think of the husband, and children of Rebecca,
my niece, who is finally free from pain.
> >
> What are the symptoms of chairi? They thought I had ptc am suffering
tememdously so many diagnoses. It would help to know the symptoms.
> Thank you God Bless You Sue
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