... Bitching is what the internet is here for. :) Seriously, I don't think anyone expects more or less from anyone else here. Do what you gotta do. ... Make...
Thanks everyone for the advice. you know when we broke up it wasnt amicable, thats why its more difficult for me. I didnt want to break up and i still dont...
... Why, if you know that that's what she needs to heal, would you still want to be a couple? I'm not trying to be mean or harsh, but if you do love her, and...
yeah you are right, that is what she needs and there is some comfort that it is not me but that this is something she needs for her. so knowing all these...
... Know that you're doing the right thing out of Love. Love and Light, Shelly -- The Purple Hat Project: http://rainbowsendpress.com/php/ Exposed: Unmasking...
Thank you Shelly, remind me of this when i find myself forgetting. ... Know that you're doing the right thing out of Love. Love and Light, Shelly -- The Purple...
I agree with what you are saying but it is harder then that. Just to let someone go.--- In positivepartnersofsurvivors@yahoogroups.com, Shelly Strauss...
... I never said it was easy. Love and Light, Shelly -- The Purple Hat Project: http://rainbowsendpress.com/php/ Exposed: Unmasking the Agenda of the Radical...
... *** Shell, Getting through my emotional upheaval, and dealing with staying in the same house with my wife while our relationship devolves, has relied on...
Shell, all posts have great advice and insight. My wife and I have been separated twice now in the last two years. Her T advised this as she had not dealt with...
Thank you Larry, I do appreciate all these posts and i dont know what i would've done these past couple months if it hadnt been for this place. I was...
Tim-- <<It helps me remember what it's like to have fun, as well as remind me what I'm like when I'm having fun. It reinforces the notion that life goes on,...
I'm just venting here. I can't really figure out why I feel so depressed...maybe because I'm finally dealing with my own issues from the past 3 years? Saw my...
dwigginsr <roover685@...> wrote:I'm just venting here. I can't really figure out why I feel so depressed...maybe because I'm finally dealing with my...
That's alot for anyone to deal with, i'm sure it is overwhelming at times. I wish i had some advice for you but it seems like i just been going thru life and...
How are things going for you? Are you worried he will have another affair? Your situation sounds a lot like mine and I worry about that all the time. ... ...
Thanks. No advice necessary, it's just nice knowing I'm not alone. It's always better to let yourself feel, although it's easier said than done when the...
Rita, this week has been similar for me also. Although I haven't any proof of infidelity, I wonder when it will happen. I have told my wife that everyone needs...
Rita, it is so hard to choke down the awful feelings that are years old that you never really dealt with. Being so young when we got married, we had a horrible...
This seems common for all of us. My husband cheated on me also. His and my therapist says that is not a surprise because that is not intimate. I guess to me...
I have been in that situation and I felt like I was glad to find out also but then it becomes harder and harder to trust. With all the issues my partner is...
... Sounds to me as if you're in the process of mourning. Figuring out what you're mourning may help you deal with the depression better. Love and Light, ...
... out ... a ... nearly ... My Partner also seemed to take her anger out on me, usually when we drank together. When this happened I always remember what some...
My partner has just starting to deal with her repeated sexual abuse. We have been together for almost two years. The anger outbursts and complete lack of...
... Yes, there are meetings for partners of survivors, but not everywhere has them. Contact your local rape crisis center and ask them if they know of any...
I just bought that book today. I just need people I can talk to in person that doesn't know me. People that will understand what I am going through and see my...
... If you contact a local rape crisis center or domestic violence center, many of them will counsel partners of survivors for free. You can also contact your...
Hello again. I just spent an hour re-explaining myself to you folks, only to have my whole post go into oblivion... so now I am writing to a wordpad. And...
Kathy, I ditto Rita's response! I am the partner of a survivor, and I have felt all these things. The partner reaches that point where he/she doesn't trust...
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