Hello I just signed up on the website as a "carer". My husband was sexually abused as a child. We would love any phone numbers to help lines to talk to people...
I am sorry to here your husband is a survivor...while it is certainly very hard to be a partner I don't know of any resources for partners, not much is out...
OK Team, my wife entered this clinic for adult survivors of abuse. She was an in-patient for 5 days and they now have moved her to outpatient for 2 weeks. We...
Jeff, I'm with ya brother. My wife it appears to me is just now starting down the same road or parties and socializing with "other" men. No relationship yet,...
Hey Jeff, I'm going to tell you what I told everybody else. You have to seriously consider YOUR feelings here. Write it down if you have to.... It's time to...
Hi Jeff... I just wanted to give you my thoughts about what you've said about the situation you're in lately. ... for ... around. I bet. Am I remembering...
PrettyGumbo, Thanks for your reply. Tonight was another set back. She has been fairly open about this guy to me and I asked her tonight if she was still...
Dave, You scare me because the person that she is in love with is named Dave as well! However, your commits are right on the money. I must be reading some of...
Rita, Thanks for the reply. I am there but she is not. Unfortunately, I feel that I may have to follow your path and at least file. She is playing games and...
... must ... Thanks, and I'm sorry that my name turned out to be a painful reminder for you. Speaking of reading books, one book you might want to read for...
JG, I know it's hard, very hard in fact. But be true to yourself. I know you want to help her but you must look out for yourself and the children too. I was in...
... I know is that I had to be ready to sincerely file for divorce -- not doing it as a gesture or threat. ... Rita, this is important and wanted to say YES....
Hello all, I'm new to this group and I hope that I can get some advise that will help my situation. My wife of 17 years and I are currently going through...
Dear Joe, I think you should definately give the therapist a heads up. Chances are the therapist already sees the clues locked inside of her. But in either...
Hello everyone out there. Man am I having a hard time writing this message. I have been reading some postings from group members and have been trying to get...
Joe, First let me say welcome to the group. I am also new here and in the short time I have been here I have already felt like my "crazy" situation is not so...
G, Welcome... this is a good place ...glad to hear your wife is doing so well in her Therapy ... How are you doing though? Its really tough for partners even...
First off I want to welcome all the new members to this group; it is a good and safe place. Everyone here knows what you are dealing with on the inside. It...
Hey Scott, That was beautiful!!!!!!!!!! That is great news about your new house, that's exciting. I'm happy to hear that things are looking up for you. Keep ...
I'm hoping someone maybe will have some insight for me, I'm stuck. My boyfriend was abused by his father one time (that he remembers) when he was in his early...
There was a time when the anger that I had about what the abusers in my wife's family had done to her and all of the denial and silence that went along with it...
I left something out of my first reply that I thought was important enough to bring up in another post... it wouldn't be the first time that this has happened....
Hi Dave, thank you so much for the reply. ... That's exactly how I've been feeling. The more I understand about how this abuse affects the survivor long term,...
Hi- I was here a year ago and received much understanding and encouragement. I'm back. L. and broke up 11 months ago. We've "spoken" exactly twice since then....
Hi SG, Happy you're back. Although I can't tell you how to cope I can tell you what has worked for me. First of all, Live for yourself. Do things you enjoy. ...
Thank you for your reply. A helpful kick in the butt to move forward. Thankfully, I have a circle of good friends who hold me and my process in their hearts....
SG, Everytime I read one of your posts, I do indeed feel like you're sort of a kindred spirit because of the depth of feeling you so apparently still have for...
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