Dillinger, I feel for you man. My situation was much the same but my partner threw out a 10 year relationship/5 married, and our child to go live "her" life. I...
Let me first give you all a little background. I am in my early 30s and my girlfirend, a survivor of sexual abuse by her father, is the same age. We have been...
Hi, First of all you're in a great place here there are a lot of people here to help you. I think one good thing in your favor is that she is able to talk ...
The same thing happened to me at the same age, 28. The problem here was that we were talking about marriage, and I suspect that this unappearant connection...
Hi everyone - I've been offline for about a week. I'm finally back. Hopefully I'm back for a while. My Partner was in the hospital for a week. The doctor's...
... Four years? That is outstanding!! ... Ok...? I do the same thing. ... Can you pinpoint, the exact details connecting the two? It is a little vague. ... ...
I meant to make the same note. The fact that your partner is willing to talk about it, the fact that she is aware that there is a problem and (remarkably) that...
Hi, I am brand new to this forum. It's a welcome sight for me. I have the book "Allies in healing" and several others, and I have a great therapist too....
I don't know how much I belong on this list anymore, my relationship with my partner having been over for just about a year now. But I still have friends who...
. Makes 100% sense to me, who has also left my survivor partner.Am trying to move on but it's just like you say with that 'meaningful relationship'.Kathy (arms...
Right behind you Jen. I am within millimeters of throwing this whack-job out after 23 years together. I am looking for signs of hope out there, and there you...
Formally known as cr_pau, now cr_houston. Sad news - my wife has left (with our daughter), she is "going" to conselling i.e. she attends, we are officially...
Thank you for your insight and astute observations. I feel this board is for partners of survivors, whether the partner is in the middle of a relationship with...
Hello all, I've been searching for something like this group for quite a while now. I am in a long term (3 years) relationship with a survivor. We are...
theoriginalslacker wrote: Jos: My wife and I are gay as well. If you want to email me off the list you can do so as well. Love and Light, Shelly -- The Purple...
Kathy, Very nicely said. I have left my wife in the past several times, because neither of us knew what the underlying cause of her inability to show me love,...
Crispin, Sounds like you and I are on similar paths. I am in Austin (Round Rock) please free to make contact - cerebralnet@... I wish I could make the...
... Hi Jos, Welcome to the list, just wanted to let you know that there are other lesbian partners of survivors on this list. Our relationship is fairly new ...
Jos I'm a lesbian too, and I can tell you this group has been invaluable to me in coming to understand both my partner and myself as we go through this...
Thank you, so much, to everyone who has welcomed me to this group! I can not explain how much it means to me! I look forward to communicating with you all...
I have been with my survivor for 23 years and actively dealing with her healing for the past 3 years, and it has been hell, as most of you probably remember...
In a message dated 4/16/04 12:48:35 PM Pacific Daylight Time, ... Same thing goes for my xgf. Not long after the sexual abuse issues started to come up, she...
Precisely what my therapist has said about M. I accept that, but don't quite know what to do with it (she, by the way, has intimated that I have BPD. And I, of...
In a message dated 4/17/04 8:40:59 AM Pacific Daylight Time, ... There is a lot of information out there on BPD. One yahoo group that is quite helpful is Land...
Thank you to everyone who responded to my post. It's nice to get that kind of support/feedback, even if I only really wanted to just vent. I think that's...
I suspected as much. It was really just so much rhetoric. Thanks Hutch ... bribing/begging/threatening, if their heart isn't in it, it isn't going to do any...
