I always thought our therapist was a bit fishy. 1. He seemed to be driving a wedge between myself and S 2. He never questioned what she said: just repeated...
Actually, it a friend of mine who is getting their PhD in conseling who suggested the aubuse specialist when choosing a therapist. I can't tell you much about...
It is no small thing that you and the woman you care about "found" each other--- while your life-experiences and situations differ, there is a common thread....
... I am here for you. ... Daisy, I would like to discuss this privately. My e-mail will have my e-mail address along with my IM addresses. While I am not...
... I am here for you. ... Daisy, I would like to discuss this privately. My e-mail will have my e-mail address along with my IM addresses. While I am not...
I know I do go on. I'm almost getting sick of myself. But I don't have much of anywhere else to go to whine, to cry, to say that I hurt and that I don't know...
Hang in there, Hutch. There is no such thing as whining in this little circle. And remember, just as you read so many stories here of how hard the period...
Our situation is weird. I am re-assessing the landscape. Our therapist was basically just a recruiter for a cult type organisation. He used cult techniques in...
It's been a while since I posted much about what is going on with Tracey and I. We are making it day by day --sometimes hour by hour. We have had some...
I am curious about, whether, anyone else in the group, has encountered this. My fiance has made claims and demands verbally but, her actions say otherwise....
I am curious about, whether, anyone else in the group, has encountered this. My fiance has made claims and demands verbally but, her actions say otherwise....
Hi Chris, I do know that when people are depressed they tend to neglect their personal hygene habits. How is she sleeping? Any changes? How is she eating? Any ...
Hi all, I have a request, does anyone know of any resources that might be helpful with dealing with body memories. My L is having re-occuring memories at the...
Thanks. I was in such a painful place when I wrote about that. And I am indeed trying to celebrate it. I was so caught up in it that I in fact failed to say...
Hutch, I think you have to realise you can't win verbally with her, (and nobody else could) as long as there is love between you.Her trust was violated by...
Hello Everyone, Chris's fiance here.... I saw this post and was floored.... In terms of the house, I've always been what others might think of as a "neat...
Chris- I saw this a lot too on many levels of my marriage where my ex would say she wanted one thing, but did nothing on her end to back it up. Likes and...
Dear Terrilynn, I read your post and just wanted to tell you about my grandmother....... She had hydrocephails (however you spell it lol) too. About 4 years...
Thanks Bill. That first sentence of yours is exactly what my therapist said when he met her. I guess one of the good things that's coming out of this, for me,...
Welcome, Terri Lynn. Please don't think you have to explain or justify anything you do (or don't do) in this space. In the process of healing, we sometimes...
Kathy, You are an amazing and wonderful person. Your work on this board gives light to many of us. Your wisdom is so enormous; and being an 'enlightened'...
As you wander down this lonely road, and carry your load of sorrow and pain, remember you have friends to help, when it seems you've fallen, and can't get back...
I don't really know where to start. I guess I'll start at the beginning - maybe someone can help me to figure out where to go from here..... Warning - this is...
Dear Matthew, Sorry, I cannot recall any specific common books that discuss in much detail about body memories;books will touch upon what you have mentioned...
You have some serious allegations against you, both personally and legally. I think the state has done the best thing for all interests by separating you from...
Dear all, I found the above website advertised on a full page ad in USA TODAY last week. It represents the National Centre for Missing and Exploited Children....
My Partner occassionally has body memories. Hers often make her feel like someone is entering her vaginally or rectally. These body memories are uncomfortable...
This post is somewhat off-topic but I still hope you can help me. My Partner has been going through a lot lately (flashbacks, depression, body memories, fear...