Hi Kathy, I haven't been very active on this board lately because I've been dealing with a big move, but i'm settled now and have caught up on these last...
Hi Alexia-- Thanks for your words, encouraging me to stick around here. I've reached a point in my own life-journey where I have the strength to provide my...
Hi Kathy, wow, what a great reply. I want to respond to everything. You made some great insights and further cleared the daunting, cluttered road that I find...
I'd like to chime in - I posted my story a week or so ago. God I wish I had found this place years ago. The words of wisdom and compassion here are a ...
Kathy- I think this is my favorite part. I've paid lip service to this most of my life and now am trying to live by them. Thanks again for your sharing. ... ...
Well, I haven't been here in about 6 months or so. I have had a recent enlightening, and I want to get back onboard here. Here is a message that I posted here...
I know lessons are often invisible to those who are in the middle of them, but no one here can make this decision for you. If I were one of your kids, I'd be...
I am possibly setting myself up for a load of questions. But I need to do something. I am an experienced Microsoft tech with a background ranging from early...
In a message dated 2/2/03 11:24:42 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... I agree that the kids should be part of counseling - kids have a way of knowing when things...
Assigning blame (which includes taking on guilt) seems to be what humans are best at, when relationships go sour. People make mistakes... people get married...
I peeked at your website, and must say that your children are beautiful. And You're facing things in your life with a great deal of courage. If it helps to...
George, i am almost where you are now - currently separated, wife is in counseling, we are in marriage counseling, a lot of history, a lot of excuses on both...
Hi George, welcome back to the board. I agree completely with Chris L., you need to watch out for yourself and your kids first. If your wife is doing well as a...
Great post Cat! Wow, so great to hear that your son has come through with flying colors!!!! Just wanted to acknowledge your post and say: have fun in Florida!...
hey, before i start. i didn't mean to start such a row with my post "middle school" the responses have helped. and kathy thanks. i started thearapy today. what...
All I can say is wow! I had to print this out and I am going to save it. My wife and I are separated now. We still have a lot to go through; I don't know what...
Thanks for all of the great responses. I am trying to be open-minded and swallow my pride a bit, which is something that I am not very good at doing. One...
Hang in there, George, you're doing great! My ex told me she'd dealt with all of her issues before we got together. She was wrong. Still, if it took us...
No apologies, Donald! That's our rule! You're amazing, man. I'm going to print out your post too. Something you said really struck me: wondering about other...
In a message dated 2/4/2003 8:31:46 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Perhaps it is just to painful for her to remember at this time. White Cat back in NYC ...
- is like so many others on this board, from what I've read. I'm not hesitant to share it, but then again, it must get tiring for all of you to read the same...
Hi survivorpartner03, welcome. glad you made and glad to have you. i felt the same way when i first came to this board - that i was making a nuisance of myself...
As I have mentioned my wife and are separated, and have been for a while mentally/emotionally, physically only a month. We were both working on things between ...
You've shared a great deal of personal insight in this and your previous post, and I thank you for that. Please know that it does "work" to recognize and learn...
Hey Ashley, Thanks for this info. i'll check it out and pass it on. take care, Lynn ... __________________________________________________________________ The...
Hi Chris.May I suggest you print out this letter and give it to her?It may not reverse her decision but it will show her your sincerity as you have shown it to...
Hi Chris.May I suggest you print out this letter and give it to her?It may not reverse her decision but it will show her your sincerity as you have shown it to...
Hi all, I'm usually a lurker and have not posted much to this group. But, I need a sanity check here and some advice. I'll try and make this short. My...
Thank you very much Chris. I have encountered a problem recently with my girlfriend. Not quite the same as yours but painful never the less. My girlfriend has...
