My wife stopped having sex sometime ago and has been in therapy for quite some time. Her father was an alcoholic and she has broken off relations with him...
... talk ... Hi JJ.From what you say there is no doubt of the parental abuse.But you already know that by just asking, right?If you push things with your wife,...
Hello all... I'm new to the group today and I'm here to find other people in the same position that I can talk to... My partner and I are both 21 year old...
Hi Erine... I can so relate. I am also in a relationship with another woman who was abused as a child by her father and then others. I get so mad I could...
Dear Renay my name is Herb, as of last week my wife left she is a survivor. You are right I am not alone. In my heart I need to forgive her and show her my...
My wife and I read an article about partners of sexual abuse survivors last night about how difficult it is for partners. It was good to know that my wife and...
Today was a hard day... She was able to bring back more memories and even talk about some of them... And, as much as I want her to heal, sometimes I hate...
Nolo, Getting close and then being pushed away, walls going up, seems like her personality changes, it is the most confusing thing. frustrateing too, seems...
YOu are welcomed....Any time you need to talk, I go through the same things/emotions/feelings,,,helplessness sometimes... as we all do here. Hope that your...
Thank you Renay right now I just miss my wife. She has detached herself from me and it seems that she won't touch the subject of us and her as a survivor so I ...
Nolo had the same problem it seems the closer I get to her the more protected she gets. I think it opens the wounds she has because pain is associated with...
To Rene and Nolo, Who the hell can understand insanity.!!!! The reason such wonderful loving people like us are astonish its because on some level its insane,...
Of course it sucks and you are a good person who deserves better. She is not a bad person and neither arte you. Right now she is a hurt person, feel sorry for...
I think its becuase we are trian to pick suffering people and becuase we are loving people we try to help, but it is a trap becuase even if we are sucessful...
Rene, I have had the same problem in the past... I found myself in a string of relationships with all of these partners who had been abused in some way in...
One thing for sure I have more good friends and a rich experience. I think is wonderful that all of us share simerlarities. I think survivor find us because we...
I enjoy reading what everyone has to say about the relationships that you have been in. I just wanted to add my two cents. I have been in a relationship with...
Hi, Ryan... This is such a beautiful testimony. I wish I could say the same for myself. I've survived emotional abuse and I'm married to someone who has...
Hi Ashley, Your words are very powerful. You should be a writer. Thank you for being so honest and telling us about your past. Its not an easy thing to do....
Hi Andrea, Thank you for the compliment. I am glad that I could help in some way. I understand what it is like to feel like a victim. It is the most...
... that you ... years. We ... She ... she would ... knew she ... trust. ... of ... abusive. ... outbursts. She ... probably see in ... each of ... some sort...
Thanks Bill, I agree with you 100%. Often as partners of survivors we are victimized. It is very important to let OUR partners know that we will not stand for...
ryan, that was beautiful, and means a lot to me. thank you. ruby (still shy about posting but i read every single message) We are all survivors. Each of us...
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