Hi I feel very unsure about writing you a reply. I'm new to the group but I also know how much you must hurt & I hope very much that I don't say anything that...
please don't feel unsure about communicating with me...i am open to any and all communication about these new things/problems in my relationship...in our...
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I can't really take a break, at least, not in the sense that I can leave and go somewhere and let her be herself and heal herself. I pay all the bills and she...
I am still surprized at by the number of different opinions regarding the best way to deal with living with a neurotic individual. Regardless of the reason why...
there are times i just don't know how to go on. I know what you mean by not being able to take a break. I work 2 jobs to pay for her counselling and household...
i guess there is always "escapism", which gets a bad rap but got me through my brutal middle school and high school years. i've fallen off a bit, but i used to...
sabastian157: you're exactly right about the patterns. There's no rule book, or set course. We're doing it the best way we can, and that has to be good...
our society teaches us that marriage is "holy"--as if it was a godly institution. Institutions are anything but godly. I love my marriage...but I have to WANT...
Don't feel bad because you're thinking about yourself. Saying how you feel isn't ranting. The situation in your home sounds very complication & very hard & I'm...
well, i'm a fulltime student and i work 30 hours a week, so I have my hands full...but my school and work have suffered since i've moved in with her. actually,...
thanks Paula... I'm trying to focus on school more now. I wish I could just go out and do stuff with my friends, but most of them I've alienated by being in...
I know just what you are going through on this one. My partner is not working and says she can't interact with people. She has no high school education as...
Dear astrokitty, I have read all your recent postings and wanted to respond. Just to give you some background...I am a survivor oF SA from my biological father...
"Treat yourself as well as you treat your survivor." Well, I don't know what happened...but I don't seem to be treating her any way. Nice or not so nice. I...
yeah, it sucks. like I said...she's doing her recovery hardcore right now...and I don't see her most of the day or even talk to her on the phone...and the...
boy sounds so familiar. i was into alot of the same things when i was in school but thats been quite awhile ago. even hearing about now is almost like you are...
After my crisis I take the desition of continue this journey with my wife, I was so hurt, my trust in her was broke. I'm analysing the causes of my behavior....
This is for gerbreu, nayray and astrokitty: I've been listening in guys, and my heart really goes out to you.I thought the comments made by Simonshek and...
Hey, folks. I haven't posted much since joining, but I certainly do know how you all are feeling. If anyone's heard of the Indigo Girls, they just came out...
thanks potter... we had an okay weekend, but i don't know. it's like, i felt like we were going to actually try to have a relationship...and now that she is in...
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*******warning*******long rambling post******** I've searched through the archives of this group and found similar problems, but I just need a space to tell of...
thanks for being so open, dillinger. your eloquence and sincerity in telling your story are...well, touching, though I hate that word. I'm not big on sappiness...
Heartfelt, I've had a lot of responses in this group...and all of them have been good, but your responses cut through a lot of the nicety that we fellow...
Dillinger, I am sorry to hear about this recent event in your relationship. I think right now you are very angry and that is your right to be, but as I read...
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