Hey It's been a long time since I was on here. I haven't read any posts lately (in years perhaps)... For those of you new to the support group here, on line,...
I confess to not reading through your entire post, but I must jump in to say I believe what you wrote is overly pessimistic. I have been married to a CSA...
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Hello everyone. While I have not posted in some time, I continue to read through your latests. Last I posted was in late June; perhaps it can be found far back...
I have something that might help again While I was traveling, the first stop I made after leaving the USA, was Heathrow Airport, London, UK. Now, that sounds...
Hi S., You bring back much with the notion of that blast out of blue, when something you thought was over is suddenly happening again, four months up in smoke,...
Hi, Daniel. Thanks for responding. I really appreciate your insightful perspective. I think my discomfort in hearing from him unexpectedly is in that it...
JP, Thank you for everything. You were one of the people that helped keep me afloat when I was drowning and that gave me the hope I needed when it all came...
To notsuperman1959: It was at the 4 1/2 mark that my relationship with my gf changed drastically. I think, quite possibly, that the best advice here right now...
Hello - I think an additional challenge you may have is you being a social worker could be both a blessing and curse; I am glad to read that you have...
Yeah okay, I have sat in silence for a while but have to interject here... I remember when I first came to the board the last thing that I wanted to hear was...
It's so quiet here! First, a note on some recent posts: we should make sure not to generalize. Not all survivors of CSA are so damaged that they can't handle a...
Daniel, Thanks for checking in. Your empathy has been so helpful to me during this emotional odyssey. Yes. what a "new" life it is. I am keeping an open mind,...
I am so sad to see what this group has become. Some may remember me, some may not but this used to be a great place of healing for me. I have read a few of the...
I remember you daisy... long time baby... I get what you are saying. I have been pretty quiet on the board, everything with my partner is dissolved except for...
Hello... I have just read the recent posts and I agree with Daniel. It is a mistake to generalize survivors of CSA. With any human experience there are a...
Simon my friend! so good to hear you are doing well. You have been in my thoughts and prayers even though I haven't been on this board in a long time. I'm...
Patricia, you are right, EVERYONE is a bit screwed up. Not one person has live more than 20 years and not been through something in thier life that hasn't...
Does anyone know of a site for parents of both the molester and the victim? We are grieving for both of our children, and need to find a way to get through...
Hi Daisymae: I'm sorry my reply has taken so long. I see by your response that you totally understand my point. In reality wouldn't we all be very bored if...
Hi I'm glad to bave found this group, I have recently fallen in love with someone who has been abused. I can't choose who I fall in love with and I can already...
Welcome to the group JP. You're right, this is not going to be easy. In fact this may be the hardest thing you will ever do. But love is never a wasted...
Thanks.... Something that I have noticed recently is that when something happens, I say or do the wrong things (I'm still trying to work out what these things...
She may just be taking a time out to sort through what she is feeling. I do this too. Not because I want to cause stress to my partner but rather to avoid my...
One of the good things about this place is that we can share these kinds of feelings. There is so much we feel, in trying to love a CSA survivor, that seem...
Hello Daniel: I wanted to let you know that your posts are very helpful and much appreciated. Thank you, we're all with you too! Patricia ... CSA ... partners'...
okay yall gonna just get this out here. Daisy, love that you work for some sort of peace, a cure, I mean what is it that one is working towards matters, so...
Hello Simon: Your point is very well taken. I know I am Co-dependent and contribute to my partner's behavior. In retrospect, the extent to which I will go to...
Thank you too, Brenda. I was on the bottom for a long time, through my own doing, and some ignorance about what and how the human being and our minds and...
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