He hurt your daughter, whom you love, but he's still your brother, there's no getting around that. I get mad at my in-laws asking why don't they disown their...
need to feel better by gettin a post fix - trouble is i cant form a sentence do to brian lock -so i'll simply say scream ! ahhh. sry for yelling but i needed...
Wow, I found this site after starting to read "Allies in Healing". While the site has allot of good partners, and helpful messages, I note that it seems to be...
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"Do Not Lose Yourself or you are no good to your partner" This phrase beautifully sums up a partner roll. It is important that your survivour has some...
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Hey there I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. I read the posts here in an effort to try and understand how my husband could perceive things, etc. I...
I think that it is great that you are able to put into words what you desire from your husband. I think being able to do that is the first step to helping him...
May 17th early in the morning my fiance and soulmate was raped by her new neighbor as she's moved recently. For now I'll spare the details. But I personally,...
Over time, I think you both will be going through a lot of different emotions and its important that you not let any one feeling or emotion dominate you....
Hi everyone, I just joined the group. My partner is a survivor and we're about to move to the San Francisco Bay Area. I'm wondering if anyone knows of a)...
completely off topic here, but I saw your wording, "feminist, queer- friendly therapists for abuse survivors" Is that even politically correct? I have known...
I'm not really sure how this group works, but I ned helpunderstanding my husband aversion to sexual relations. When me met, he told me about his childhood...
You two could certainly continue as in past relationships in the hopes that neither of you bring about any triggers in each other, but if this a relationship...
Well, here we go-- We are giving it one last shot, (famous last words) after 30 years of living with a male survivor of sexual abuse/incest and God knows what ...
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I have posted a few times, but this will be the last i commend all of those that are riding the wave with there love one who has been sexually abused. I have...
To realize what you have realized in 2 years time is a good thing. It's best to bow out now before children, mortgages, car payments and all the other things...
trust issues, sex issues, control issues, guilt like you left her when she needed you most, guilt like a parent that abandoned a child... constant worry about...
I've never posted on here, but I'm in the same situation as you right now. I have been in this roller coaster relationship for 2 years now. It's time to get...
This post is actually a little helpful to me. I just joined this group and am about to marry someone who was abused as a child for years by a retarded uncle,...
Just a couple of thoughts Weather you are in a relationship with a survivor or exiting such one of the key questions I think people may need to consider is...
I actively started trying to figure out how to cope w/ a partner who survived childhood sexual abuse. Mentally, I was trying to figure it out all along but it...
How does all this affect kids? Well, here's my report: My daughter is graduating next fall with a degree in psychology--with a focus on psycho-sexual...
I just recentely told my wife of two years that i could not put myself through this anymore and that for my own sake i had to leave. I was not prepared for...
