Have any of you ever gone to a psychic, or thought about going to a psychic. I feel so desparate and alone in my journey here. I have not heard back from any...
I'm new to the group but very glad I found you all because I'm there again. At a spot where I wish I could fix it but I can't. I need some advice. Background...
Hi Ray, ... Almost immediately. He told me about his father, first. Described it as a one time thing that his father was drunk for. After a few months of...
Hi Danielle, All I can say is slow down and if you can, get someone in your corner that's all YOURS, a therapist of your own, a priest, a friend you can talk...
Hi Michael, I'm not the best person here to give you advice, but I wanted to respond so you know someone is listening. It sounds like you're doing everything...
I am left with constant questions. What is the truth, what is a semblance of truth. What is she saying to me because she believes it to be true, what is she...
Dear Brenda, Thank you for the encouraging words. I was in therapy for several months at the same center where my wife goes. I was able to talk with a male ...
If seeing a psychic provides you some comfort, then I see nothing wrong with it; provided you do not act on whatever information is given to you. I say this...
Just found this forum, as we go into another round. My wife and I have been married for a little over 20 years. Four years after we were married her incest...
Mike, Brenda, I don't know why, but I haven't been lurking in here for a while, maybe feeling I didn't need the support, or that I had moved on. I had the...
I read that I can respond here even if I am a survivor, and not the partner of one. I hope this is the case. Bravo to you for sticking with your wife through...
Mike, I am a survivor,so you may not want to hear from me - but I wanted you to know that someone cares. I know what my husband goes through with me is...
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The "IT" that your wife is waiting to have happen, sounds like she still has real trust issues with you. I can only say that because I feel the same way about...
... still has real trust issues with you. I can only say that because I feel the same way about my husband. I struggle on a daily basis to accept that he is...
I'm new to the group and have read through some of the archive messages tonight. So much hits home. So much is familiar. But that's the whole key isn't it? To...
I know this is an old message but it was the first topic I read and also hit home for me. zizz - I hope that you have found some resolution to this problem. ...
Dear Ray of Hope: I'm also fairly new to the group. I've been dropping in to read the posts but don't respond often. Actually, I'm not sure that I meet the...
Ray of Hope, Wow - I can understand why you would be angry and upset. I am not a partner, but I am a survivor. I have just recently been able to separate...
Miss R., Thank you for posting. I am so sorry for what you have had to endure and I am inspired by your tenacity. Your insight is invaluable, especially for...
R, Can I just say, again, THANK YOU!!! You know, my partner routinely would tell me I "wasn't even trying" with his brother, his abuser, to get along and be...
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Can you tell me more about this? I sought out the website to understand it better, but found myself still confused at how they can change mental images by...
Yes, That is exactly how I feel. I struggle to ignore the past. I have found my Survivor to be so Strong. So encouraging. I often wonder how I would have...
Da Guy, How do they do that? My question is to you is ... Which part? How do they still find ways to make excuses? How do they not beg him to get any kind...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, RAY!!! There are no easy answers, huh? :( I can relate (somewhat) to your survivor's denial. I grew up being emotionally abused by an...
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Ok, I have never even been on a web page before, but here it goes. My partner and I have been together for 5 years now. Our relationship started out as best...
You and your partner absolutely need to read "Courage to Heal." That book is quite a bit controversial because the authors are not psychologists, but it's a...
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