Okay, I know that what Brenda had to say may have seemed a bit... Ruff? I reckon I need to thank Magdalene though for bringing the topic to light, because I...
See, everytime I let go, she comes back with affection and we both get our fix, but this time, I felt something different. Had only felt it one other time...
It is so strange for me to see this board so silent over the holidays. I think it is strange yet I have been pretty silent as well. I have always loved the...
Simon, You know I love you right? The junkie analogy isn't so far off, perhaps. You do have an... addiction maybe? To your ex? You keep going back, she keeps...
I'm sorry the holidays were so hard, Rob. My mom died on January 4th, and she was admitted to the hospital on New Years day, so new years has always sucked for...
Hard introspection, two years of therapy, and I think it is a combination of several things... one that I hadn't really considered, but hey, sad to say this,...
something else that I have noticed that I think has made this over the final over, is that because of her behavior while we were together, I have come to hate...
Hello Simon, ... That is an important point to remember: If she has not changed, why would anything be different if you tried again? It is amazingly easy to ...
And through it all, I realize that in this realm of knights in Shining armor, damsels in distress, true love, and happily ever after, that before I can ever...
ok so I have a question. I recently found out that my partner was sexually abused by his father at a very young age, Like 4 years old, and he has been sexualy...
Hello: Glad I found this group and hope to find support here. I have just started a relationship with someone who is a survivor. We have been dating for a...
Hello, i have a friend who has issues that are like your partners. She was abused by her brother at a young age and does not even let her boyfriend of 1 year...
Hi M, I'm sorry you need to be here. :( Regarding this new relationship... Survivor issues aside, I would encourage a friend to consider if it's worth making...
Hi Suportv, My ex-partner considered himself addicted to porn, and said the same sorts of things. Didn't really know why, said he didn't find it sexually...
You know I am now in the amazement of the new discovery stage of being with someone who was twisted at a young age... Crazyforanthro, does it apply here, are...
Um...I think you are missing the point.... try reading through my original post again then look at your answer...doesn't make complete sense..why would I want...
I am sorry sweetie, I was being cynical, not senile... My point was not to go kill people, it was to stress the importance of having a therapist or someone,...
Hi all am new here. Trying to figure out how best to understand & if possible help my wife with her past tramatic sexual abuse. I have been married for 8 years...
I recently found out that my wife was raped last year during while we were seperated. She will not tell me who did this which leads me to assume that it is...
T, I am sorry I do not have too many answers for you. I have lived through the "I am not in love with you anymore" talk and it sucks so bad. It is crushing,...
Mo, I wish I could just "help" you as you asked. I am sorry it is just not that simple. I know exactly how bad it hurts to say I love you or I am in love...
SWEETIE.....I feel for you..........I really do! In life we can only help ourself...........that i sthe key ourself.............................on a plane they...
Hi T., I wonder, is your eldest child getting close to the age your wife was when the abuse started? That's often a trigger for survivors, which might be why...
Mo, It sounds like things were off for a long time before the separation, is that correct? I guess it's not clear when the separation was, how long it lasted,...
Lovey how are you? You haven't posted in a while, I was just thinking about you and wondering how you've been. How's it going? Love Brenda ... only help ... ...
Hi, I'm new here, so go easy on me. I have been in a relationship with a wonderful girl for a little over a year now. I learned relatively early on that her...
Thank you Brenda so much! It all does make sense. But I seem to want to still do everything to help her. I don't know why but nothing I do on my own pleases me...
Thank you Rob. Is there any good books you could recommend. I have come to terms with wife not being as sexually attracted to me as she is with women. It is...
I am sorry Mo. You sound like a very devoted & loving husband. I have no answers for you as I am new to trying to understand people that are Survivors. I just...
I'm just thankful to find this site. I am truly looking for ways to help my situation. I love my wife but if any of you have read "Men are From Mars Women are...
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