the eastiest thing is to just leave, they are a fucked up bunch and our lives are worth more than that....you cannot fix them....they need to get past that...
I just started to feel the way you do Cindy.I tried with all of my heart and soul.I lost .so did he.he just doesn't realize it yet.I must say ,the last 2...
To my big brothers: CREED LYRICS "Sister" Caught up in the middle Had no choice, had no choice Birthright forgotten, so silent No voice I see you You know who ...
Cindy, I have been noticing a lot of anger on the board lately from everyone, and I think it is a good thing. You need to be angry enough to stand up for...
Kim, you are so right, he lost in such a gigantic way. He had someone who was walking through hell with him and he did not take advantage of that amazing...
Thank you Rob......you made my day...............youare strong....you are all so strong.I am going through alot of ups and downs.......but I am so focused on...
I'm not saying that their behavior is healthy or positive - It isn't. But I prefer to look at this in terms of thinking patterns and patterns of behavior -...
Leaving is often the easiest thing, but it isn't always the right thing to do (although we HAVE TO take care of ourselves too). You're half right with your...
... Agreed He had someone who was walking through hell with him and he did not take ... I don't think "foolish" is an accurate word here. For one thing, it is...
Keith, I admire your fortitude. I agree with what you are saying. I respect your conviction. I wish you the best and pray that it works out. I got on here...
Simon I feel for you.I really do.I am here for all of you.When I have a minute to finish my story I will.It i sINSANE......................REALLY INSANE.I ...
Simon - Thanks for replying. Your comments make sense. Admittedly I haven't been reading this listserv to often lately with all of the other things going on in...
Keith, I don't think there's a one of us here who wouldn't have preferred to stay with our survivors. In the majority of the cases, if you read back, they left...
Absolutely when I speak of walking through hell with your survivor I totally mean to go through the pain of healing with them. I would have stayed with my x,...
You are in my prayers always Kim ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com [Non-text portions of this message have been...
Good wisdom Brenda. Keith, sorry to hear about losing her in this sad way. I honestly believe it's for the better. I'm one of the ones that had to choose to...
I've never posted here before. I just read and cry over all the problems we have in common. But my world is turning upside down and I feel like such a bad...
You are so not a bad person, the person that did this to her is a bad person, you are not. This is so very hard. I wish you all the best, stay as strong as...
No you are 10000000000 % right.Don't do it to yourself.When you hit your point, you will get ou tof this.If she isn't willing or able to help herself.....than...
This is going to sound really harsh -- and it's not harsh at YOU. I'm angry on your behalf, reading your message I can't tell you how livid I am. In a...
WOw, classic "Brenda" at her best. Memorize that one. Rob ... let ... and ... Put ... date ... don't ... a ... outcome ... YOUR ... person ... and ... got ......
Thank you everyone. She really knows how to push all my buttons but I know I'm not the selfish person she's making me out to be. I will get thru this. ...
And trust me, I know how much of a problem that can be. Love, will get you to do some pretty silly shit my friend. I think God designed it that way. Love is...
Hi, I'm a new member and I'm totally lost. I'm a 40 year-old male in a relationship with a 39 year-old female that I believe was sexually abused as a child....
... Just this past weekend, this idea crossed my mind. My ex had known me for years, so he knew I had a great IT job for years. That was enough probably for...
Hi Neal, Oh yes, I've been there my friend. My ex-partner told me that I was the first and only person he'd ever been in love with, that we were made for each...
Yeah, been there and done that, and been there and done that again, and then been there and done that again... I think it is the love that they offer when they...
Thanks Brenda, I realise that I'm on a hiding to nothing and that this person would rather live in her own misery because she feels in control of it. She was...
I did always see myself as a fly trapped in a web and did know that I had to break free from her. I strongly believe that she will be back at some point (not...
Neil, when we finally get the answer to the riddle even though it is so far away from the answer we wanted at least it is an answer. I am sorry, as I read you...
