Hello family, This was read at a wedding I attended this past weekend and it struck me as THE perfect wedding passage for codependents. And since so many of us...
Awesome Brenda, thanks simon -- In positivepartnersofsurvivors@yahoogroups.com, tryingtohelp2 ... struck ... many ... forgotted, ... alone; ... the ... the...
we have been married for nearly ten years now. Two beautiful girls. 2 and 4. I have know about the abuse since before we were married, but she had continued to...
sounds like you have gone through the whole bit, some on here have had partners unwilling to go to therapy, but it sounds like you know what is ahead of you...
i HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH MY OWN INSANITY.....I feel for you .it is so hard..........especially with an entire family unit established................my ...
Everyone is always looking for a success story and we are all trying to write them. Life is a lot longer than they say it is and not everything happens...
WELL SAID.......LOVE AND PEACE TO YOU......................................I TRY TO KEEP MY HEAD ABOVE WATER EVERYDAY.I HAVE RECENTLY DECIDED THIS IS BIGGER...
My survivor ex wife and I went through the fire during our marriage, couldn't make it, got divorced, and after the divorce tried to make it work again. It was...
Shane, We are all here for you, brother. We all understand where you are. Good for you for setting boundaries and deciding to live life and not wait around...
Hello im new at this, but i was hoping that something, anything would help me understand my partners feelings towards me....he has mentioned things, but it...
Sad, sorry that you needed this place but glad that you found it. It sounds like in your case intimacy is a more intimidating trigger to your guy than sex is....
Dear Sad: I am also new to the group. You are, in fact, my first posting response. If I may give you my thoughts - I will say that your badgering him with...
Dear Shane, We don't have control over the behavior of the people we love, but we do have control over our reaction to their behavior. Some times the best...
thank you for your response. i believe you are right....the thing is that is not what we talk about, its the "us" I try to talk about....he doesn't seem like...
Of course, I have no answers. I wish I did. The only other thought I have is perhaps he's depressed. People isolate when they are depressed, despite wanting...
Dear Simon: After reading your posting, I feel compelled to say you have shared a very significant revelation with the group. Often times in life the most...
Dear Simon: Wow - the road of life can be an endless triathlon. Just when you complete one difficult and strenuous leg of the race --- you must begin the...
Pat I really enjoyed reading that last post, life is nothing like I imagined it would be like. Now I know that life is so much more complicated and then...
Although it is possible, your 5 and 8 yr old niece typically will not reveal to you a "big secret" as you put it, in the way I think you are expecting; or in a...
Hope no one minds. Bitter=ON\ I wish I could just Eternal Sunshine my way into a new life. I wish it wouldn't take so long. His ex wife passed me a message...
I came across this recently, apparently it's been making circles around the web and it's quite uplifting for people in certain circumstances. I hope it makes...
Damn Girlie, You know just to be honest with you, that song hit hard, not because of the lies that she has told me, but because I have become more of a liar...
I don't post much, though I've been reading here for years, but something about the tenor of the posts these last few days has inspired me to not just read and...
Hello : I am hopeful of using the face book program as a means of creating a resource list of inclusive services within Canada. If you or your online friends...
Dear Daniel: I'm glad that you decided to say your piece. I think we can get help and support reading the experiences of others, but our individual situations...
Brenda, we all get a little bitter from time to time. It is only natural. There are so many life complications that we all get bitter sometimes. Just don't...
I do not believe that you need to feel guitly. You have every right to feel your own pain. You have been touched by this abuse. You are one of the victims...
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