Yes, mine did too until a year ago when he started facing the abuse. I don't know what he does when he is alone, but around me, he wears underwear. I never...
okay, so you have been making a list of things that you need to forgive yourself for right? The next step is to pick the top five things, the ones that seem...
What is up with red heads?... The party that you unknowingly convinced me to go to and the woman that I ended up taking to it (and she is the one I broke my...
... HEY! Redheads totally own, that's what's up with redheads. But I am happy for the both of you that you're back among the living. :) Love, Brenda Who...
Well it pleases me to be an unknowing inspiration, but now back to business, you know the Sex Pistols did Johnny B Goode, and even did My Way...When are you...
Red Head huh? You remember that offer to email me and I can be your make believe boyfriend? Well it has now officially turned into a request... I love red...
Simon, Brenda, Thanks for the love. I read the posts in here every day, and although its hard sometimes, I think it helps me heal more quickly. I think in my...
Nick, I was just struck by something you said, I never realized the lack of conversational intimacy in my marraige until it was over and I started relating to...
Hi Nick, That you were able to detach from an unhealthy situation and choose to take care of yourself first speaks volumes about the healthy person you already...
Awesome! I have a boyfriend! :) If you want, I can even break up with you in a couple of days so you will have already had your rebound relationship and you...
how about if you break up with me in a couple of weeks and then we can make up and then break up in a couple of weeks and then make up and then.... NO wait, I...
two posts that are quite strange the first one's named Trojan_smc, hmmm like a trojan virus I am not going to open it the second one is no subject, not even...
I think we all have time frames that we would like to live by but that is not always the best idea. I planned to just lay on my back waiting for my X to push...
Hank said, "I planned to just lay on my back waiting for my X to push our divorce through. I spent my time reading about our problem and researched and found a...
Hello: I am requesting your assistance with a need for poetry, art and/or writings from Survivors of violence. IE: Sexual assaults, domestic violence,...
Simon wrote "For you partners that are out there sitting on the couch, paralyzed and exhausted from doing everything that you can to get the one that you love...
maybe it was the completion of challenges. So long as there were the challenges, things to be accomplished, there was something to distract her from realizing...
Does anyone know a good partners support group in San Francisco. Im new to the city and dont have any friends or support here and I need it badly! Thanks!...
Very sorry, I'm in the midwest. Never found a good partner group out here too. Closest I came was an intermittent therapy group for partners--only I didn't...
tomorrow is my birthday, I chose to work it, yeah I need the money for the overtime, but I also chose to work it just to keep me busy for about 8 hours of it....
Igor, I know I didn't respond to your initial post, actually I tried to but there was some glitch with my computer, perhaps it was the dial up connection that...
Simon, someday we will meet, even if it is on a cloud with our harps and wings and all that crap. I can not help but tell you about myself when I read your...
Wow, what a jerk I am..... Happy Birthday. Hank ... harps ... same ... think ... in ... boaring ... and ... buzzed ... through. ... myself ... but ... plenty ...
... about ... See, I had the same self preserving voice in my head the whole time the second time too. Just kept asking me if I was sure what I was doing. I...
I have been dating a guy for the last few months and just in the last month he opened up to me and told me about his childhood abuse. Now that it is out in...
I am so sorry that you are in this familiar and confusing position. I wrestle with the same thoughts. I feel the need to talk the problem out with someone but...
I can tell you this, when my survivor was cheating on me, she said that she did so because it was starting over and that he didn't know anything about her and...
Thank you for your response. That seems to be case, when I did not know anything about the abuse the relationship was fine for him, but not entirely for me...
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