I love Fade by Staind. I actually have a recording of it that a friend made for me. He sounds almost like the guy that sings it. Here's another for the list - ...
Heard a perfect one today on my way to work on a christian station. It said something about being on the road that I was on because it was the only road to...
I see the point in understanding a sa/csa. Yet that is the point really that they will wait for the woods to burn down and usually someone like a loving...
Ralph said "learning that unless you do something for yourself you are going to remain in that place and hurting because you can not act like them and not care...
Hi Simon, A positive view of life instead of a negative one is great. I had to force myself to see life positively at first now it comes naturally. Today is...
A friend yesterday said something...love, marriage, being a parent, money, or any other thing is only a spoke in a wheel...if you are only about one spoke the...
Those Martina McBride lyrice are great. Has anyone ever heard of Fred Small? I love MANY of his songs for different reasons. He sings about issues of...
ooooo, Simon, I love it! :) Thanks for the fabulous way to remember abundance. Today I am going to love the feel of my body being connected to the earth, and...
Today, I am loving smells, all smells, good and bad. All of my focus is on what I smell...very interesting....lol rethinking the friends I have...lol simon ...
Today I will love smiles. Baby smiles, nice lady in the elevator smiles, guy in the drive through faking it smiles, toothless smiles my childrens smile and my...
Today I am loving the diversity of beautiful women. I mean I am actually paying attention to what it is about a woman that makes them attractive to me. Today...
Today I am going to love breathing. I can breathe again. The panic attacks are gone and I actually like curling up on my couch by myself and reading or...
I figure the reason for a group like this is because it is so damned hard and painful that no one except someone who has gone through it would truly...
You know Ralph the hardest thing for me to give up, is that feeling like I don't deserve something good. It is true. I make a conscious effort every day to...
I haven't posted in a long time, so I rejoined. I have questions about the effectiveness of couseing. My partner has been in couseling for 6 years. She's...
I just joined this group today because my boyfriend's daughter (age 4) is being abused at her mother's home by her older sister and brother. And her mother...
Hello Kim. You didn't say if you were in a larger city or a smaller one. If the city you are in doesn't have a Child Advocate/Sexual Assault Center, look for...
Hi Neal, "My partner has been in couseling for 6 years. ....So she's better for her, but what about getting better for me? Isn't part of it supposed to be for...
... and ... liked ... she ... of ... water ... also ... communicating ... It ... I really don't know about the couple's counseling. The last time we talked...
Hi again Neal, The couples counseliing seems scary, for you and probably even more so for her. Fear of being vulnerable and exposed. I can not stress enough...
Hi again... I read my post and I just want to say that I am not trying to push couples therapy on you...just letting you know that it has worked really well...
Lisa Thanks for ur suggestions. I've never dealt with sumthing like this b4 so its hard to really know what to do about it! And also at the same time not get...
It seems to me, that if it has become public knowledge that your county is worse than surrounding counties in investigating sexual abuse in children, that my...
I do not really have a question. I just have a need to communicate with people who will understand what I am living through. I have been reading on this site...
Glad you finally posted,Hank. It sounds like you are doing the right things by going to see a therapist for yourself and reading all you can. I know many of...
... which ... Lisa: Thanks for responding. I didn't think you were pushing the couples thing, and its ok if you were...We've been married 28 years. After 18...
I'm new here. Have been looking for a place to maybe get some insight into what is going on in my relationship or lack of relationship. Been dating a woman for...
Hank Ever feel like a dog in a dog catcher's noose? Caughtby the rope, but the bar keeps me from getting to close to her.(A little humor) I am in nearly the...