Whilst I’ve not read the original post, or the reply, I’d point out that perception is reality... _____ From: positivepartnersofsurvivors@yahoogroups.com ...
Hello, I got a letter from my ex demanding that he wants 50/50 custody. In it he says that he could provide a more loving home. But that is a crock of shit....
... It may be HIS reality, but it's not mine. Love and Light, Shelly -- The Purple Hat Project: http://rainbowsendpress.com/php/ Exposed: Unmasking the Agenda...
... All right ways to lose your temper: Go into a room and scream into a pillow. Punch a pillow. Go outside or into another room and just scream-- the kind of...
... Which gets us into the area of subjective and objective truth....which probably would be a good discussion to get into since so many of the problems that...
... Neither does allowing them to continue to do something that is both self-destructive and harmful to another. ... No, Mrs. Frog said some things had...
Take an edge and gently pull the pain wherein I heal. Dab each piece of bleeding flesh and tell me how you feel. Send me hugs if I'm a gal or manly shakes if...
Hi Tanya, My name is Mike. My wife (soon to be ex, by her choice) was abused by her brother. It started when she was 7 and he was 13, continued untill she was...
... from the gut. ... I would venture to guess that these things might be seen as abusive by the survivor as well. I myself did these things (although not...
... Rollison <rainbowlady@...> wrote: It's not that I ... I personally have no idea whose version is most accurate...Simon's or Mrs. Frog's. I hate to see the...
The question here is simply what is considered to be abusive behavior. If actions are the answer or if the feelings inside are the answer then that is a huge...
Hi Scott Scott here too. LOL = Very well put. Hope to read more from you in the future. Scott P. ... From: positivepartnersofsurvivors@yahoogroups.com ...
... You're very right. They might be PERCEIVED as abusive by anyone. Of course, a survivor might see disagreeing with him/her as abusive. The key word here is...
... And if they're still engaging in that kind of behavior? Some of the emails Simon has posted here on this board to Mrs. Frog were SCREAMING AT HER (in all...
... physical harm? ... the person who says they love ... remember calling you those things ... more damage than a slap on the face, ... abuser. ... them...
Hello fellow positive partners, Seems to be lots of talk of abuse here these days. Go figure, considering the type of relationships we are all in. so my...
... No, I saw it. But this entire thread about when to call someone an abuser and when to not call someone an abuser was centered around my calling Simon an...
... I don't believe so. ... This I would see as abusive because of the intimidation factor. When you punch a pillow, it still remains a pillow. When you take...
Red herring, a strawman, and an ad hominem attack all in one short sentence and without using any ... You know even though I am on vacation, and I have...
... ** Ok - So if I had no pillows available what are suitible substitutes? A wall,a door ? How about if I decided to just punch and kick into the air? Would...
... Mike, I will leave all of this in, but make the disclaimer that I am only aiming this at myself. I understand this sentiment, feeling like I'm always...
Howdy Mike! I'm glad you started this thread because I have confusion on this matter as well. I started writing a thread of my own but your thread is already...
... Sorry, Simon, I should have included a sarcasm alert...It was said with tongue firmly implanted in my cheek. The rest of your post, except for the...
IMHO you are a fucking bitch, because you have been cheating on me with a fat fuck scumbag, that you introduced me to after church one day? Simon... You know I...
... If you punch a wall or a door, it is a form of self-abuse because you're the one who's going to get hurt. ... That works as well. ... No, you wouldn't be...
Daisy, I wrote that not to say those words again, but to reiterate that Shellys use of IMHO, and PROBABLY can be put infront of anything as disclaimers on her...
