... Ok ... OUCH!! ... Ok ... Ok ... Not good. ... Ok ... Have they stayed there, before? ... Hmmm.... ... I agree. ... Hmm... ... That is where, your fiance...
hey Bill hows life traveller for you? things are pretty good here. ive moved back home now and been here a month. so far so good. Its actually very nice to be...
hey Bill hows life traveller for you ? things are pretty good here. ive moved back home now and been here a month. so far so good. Its actually very nice to be...
Hey Liz.Good to hear from you again and glad you seem to be doing better.My life is on a good path now.Cyn and I are very much in love and I fly to see her on...
I think ppl like you me and Cyn really frighten survivors.The (nice) touchy-feely ones are happiest being in a 'huggy' relationship, and survivors equate that...
Hello fellow partners ;) I found this website today and was really captured by the advise they are suggesting. I am and have been for a long time doing just...
... It sounds like emotional manipulation to me.... Sort of like saying "Just tell them what they want to hear until they give you what you want." I can see...
... psychology.I use it myself when I feel I'm being excessively teased or needled by someone.I agree with whatever they say and they now have no basis to...
... It could even fall under a legal matter I don't know? ... Ok ... older brother. The incest accrued when he was a boy 8-12 and the brother 14-18. ... ...
Love is so short, forgetting is so long. Tonight I can write the saddest lines. ~Neruda __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired...
Beautiful I've been silent these last few weeks while getting my head on straight. You all were wonderful and helpful for me. I am out of the relationship and...
Hi, I learned about this group through a self help hotline. Seemed certainly worth checking into. My girlfriend told me this morning that she was raped a...
Well D I had my high-school sweetheart of 6 years have this happen to her long-distance at a seminar she was at- she called me on the phone immediately...
HI D, Scott here. I am a male CSA survivor of incest and rape. I just thought I would write a few lines. There is not much more I can add to what JP replied to...
Hi Carrie, Yes the board has been quiet lately. Sometimes people just need a break away to process things or they get busy with their lives. I had expected to ...
Life's changing seasons Create a cycle of loss And hope born anew. Eh? Bill <potterlike@...> wrote: My little attempt at a poem wasn't very good Carrie...
Great to hear from you, Scott. :) Good point about him not equating the experience as rape - which is probably true for the time that we were together in HS....
Welcome to the board D. You have found a safe place to voice your feelings and get support from others that have been in your situation. I'm a survivor of rape...
Hello JP, Thank you very much for writing! I will try to reply to Scott's message today as well. (At work at the moment though, so hopefully I'll have enough...
Hello Scott, Thank you for your words of advice. You and JP, and now Daisy have really shed some light onto what comes along with something like this. Please...
Hello Daisy, Wow! Everyone is being really great and so helpful on this site. I am truly grateful. It's been a tough couple of days. I am sorry to hear of...
... Unfortunately, his attitudes is quite common. Date rape is often seen as the woman's fault as much as the man's because she accepted the date with him. And...
... <hope_is_necessary@...> wrote: Very nice Carrie, I like it.Here's one for you... My place is out there, Let me carry my boxes Along with my grief... I...
Hi David, I don't think getting tested would have been beneficial anyways. HIV cannot be confirmed negative before 3 months, except using very expensive tests...
Hello Z, Thank you for writing! I appreciate all the advice I'm getting from this group. I have a feeling that my girlfriend and I will both be okay, at least...
David mentioned "...P.S: She raped twice in her early teens also. What are the odds of someone being raped three times in their life? Is that very common?..." ...
Dave, this is just a suggestion of course, but you might want to consider seeking some individual therapy for yourself if you are going to try to keep this...
J Potter wrote: I was with you up until you wrote this: "A victim is just as much to blame as an abuser." There is a HUGE difference between responsibility and...
JP, Thank you so much for posting this info. If and when you find some good resources I'd love to dig in and research this. I agree with about 90 percent of...
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