Scott, I would like a copy, also. You may send it directly to me at coryreidmiller@... I feel that my wife has always thought that I'm her problem, but...
I would like to read your research paper as well. daisymae542003@... Thanks! ... glad ... and ... with ... a ... than ... it ... WITHIN ... educate ... ...
Hi. I am new to this site and have been reading a lot of the postings. I am a partner of a survivor who is amazing and just taking all of this head-on (he is...
Hi Mike F. You are a wise man. I just wanted to say that your words really spoke to me. You really brought me to a different place today. I was having a hard...
Mike, thank you so much for this post. These are things I truly need to ponder on. Though I am a survivor, my husband came from a rough background and lately I...
Simon, I am so sorry we have not been able to be the rock you need right now. I promise these little fall outs only happen once a year or so. When such...
Hello, I am Scott a 43 year old CSA survivor. I also suffered male to male sexual abuse at the hands of 3 older brothers. AND I also have A LOT of experience...
My thoughts are that maybe some of us might find your insight, well, insightful. There have been a number of people on this forum, myself included, whose...
... Welcome to the group. ... Your boyfriend's sexual confusion, in respect to, wanting or not wanting sex, is a 'normal recovery' feeling since, the recovery...
... Her therapist said(according to my fiance), that it can also be used with CSA survivors that, are Bi-Polar. ... In terms of the implementation of DBT, she...
Thank you to everyone who responded to my post. I was feeling very low yesterday and I can not believe I stumbled over this group AND can access it from work....
Hello, I am married to an incest survivor and I have gone thru a similar situation to your boyfriend (I was molested by males as a teen) and have seen the...
Hi, My thoughts are that maybe some of us might find your insight, well, insightful. There have been a number of people on this forum, myself included, whose...
Cory, I just wanted to say I think this is GREAT advise. I could not agree with you more, I don't know about the "no sex before marriage" part, but I feel that...
Carrie, Thank you so much for the kind words. I feel the exact same way and your message is flooding me with emotions that I have already experienced. I think...
E, **hugs** I am more than happy to share experiences with you. Look for an email before the end of the day (hopefully) as work has been busy today. Take...
Cory, Thank you so much for the kind response. I hope I didn't give the wrong impression about my boyfriend. He is not "experimenting" by any means. I think he...
... And herein lies one of the reasons I deal with objective issues rather than subjective. "Love" means different things to different people. It seems that...
this iz all new and confusing iz any body angry with the twisted monsters that prey on children ive been unraveling this twisted mess for 20 years and last...
If you're a partner now or gone, you're in my heart as one who treads or trod the boards of lone despair and can't afford the tears you spent so long. Let us...
HI SCOTT, I would love to receive a copy of your paper it sounds very interesting and looks like it covers issues I am wondering about at this point! Jackie...
... rather than subjective. "Love" means ... it "Love, C" kind of got your hopes ... email(s). Well, actually, not quite accurate. I was surprised she signed...
One more thing...when she said "he (new guy) loves me very much please give him the respect he deserves" I almost thought maybe she's trying to convince...
... Thanks for the clarification. ... Can and should! Everyone should have healthy boundaries. But again, a boundary (in terms of relationships between...
... a boundary (in terms of ... the actions of another. It is a ... want, but for my own protection, IF ... the blank" part must be an action ... my own...
