I want to know if anyone can clarify something for me. Im not sure of if i am wording this the right What is the difference between masturbating and having...
bk, Man, hang in there. Just be the best person you can be for her while she is with you. Even if you don't get to see her that much, be that pillar of ...
Hello everyone, I don't know what happened but on December 6th my son's JCA called and said my son would be coming home on the 9th! I was thrilled...yet...
Hi all, I just talked to my wife on the phone, and after telling her sisters about her situation, she took a heart and told her parents too. She was very...
I'm glad to hear the good news! Sounds like you are up for all of the hard work ahead. I'll keep you and your son in my prayers. ... From: snowys_momma To:...
First let me say that I read a lot of posts and replies here, and I am amazed at the level of compassion and willingness to help. My wife (27, as I am) of...
my daughter , hannah, is here this weekend... i have seen her 12 days since may 15th.. i see what just 6 months ago, was a sweet, caring, playful, happy, ...
.........what we partners see as intimacy with others, i don't think they see it that way. i believe they see it as just sex, and when they open the door to...
Is it common for survivors to push you away and go to complete strangers for answers or comfort,part2 is ti common for them to be possesive of you and not...
Hi all, I'm lost and looking for some encouragement and advice. For the past 6 months I have been really working on showing my husband that I do love and care...
Hope there is someone with less emotion out there that can interpret this. Last night my wife and I were talking while x-mas shopping for the kids. I had asked...
I heard mission bells chime in the wind as we toured the sites of old worship. I saw stout walls with arrow slits, a defence against marauders, and I thought...
Thanks to you all for talking. You must realize by now that all of your responses help so many people here. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could all meet in...
such sadness this monster brings... odd that i read a post like yours at this time.. and i say that only because i, in recent days, after almost 18 months...
My wife knows I am reading many things as well as talking here. I know I mentioned a chat room on the subject to her, but I don't if she knows about this...
Daisy, I don't have all the answers either by a long stretch - I'm a survivor and a partner of a survivor. From the reading I have done over the last twenty...
Daisy, I do not attempt to understand all of this because God knows I don't have any answers! I can simply give you my recent feelings and thoughts. At this...
Our discussion started with my asking if we could still meet with her T and my T together to check for accuracy in "Am I correct in believing that we are...
Sounds like you're taking care of yourself. When I keep myself busy, I'm not as miserable, I can even enjoy myself. Thanks for sharing with us; you're a good...
I know compared to others here who have been thru this and have dealing with things alot longer than me but i just wanted to know how do you get thru the...
We started the day at Denny's in San Antonio.The eggs were 'just right' and the waitress pleasant.Unlike my wife, who couldn't meet my eye.I supposed if she...
My wife recently began facing her past of sexual abuse by her father. I feel I am as understanding as possible but it's very difficult. She is in counseling...
Hi everyone, Since this forum seems to be a mix of survivors and partners of survivors, please allow me to share my story, because I need advice. My boyfriend,...
I am a mother of a 13 year old boy who was recently sexually assaulted repeatedly by a friend's father during a weekend camping trip. My head is throbbing...
HI, I am a survivor of incest and partner of a survivor of abuse including sexual abuse. I have been in counseling. I have crisis intervention and survivor...
Won't you sit beside me, now there's no-one in the room? I've been your partner,lover, man, I know we were in love, but now you seem to need a distance, more...
I thought I was to the point that I understood my relationship with my ex. It seemed that he has been too scared and/or mad to really talk to me. I just...
Hi, In addition to Allies in Healing, you might consider Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for Partners of Incest Survivors by Ken Graber. Also Repressed...
I look with wonder at, high priestess of the cards, no longer falling in the void, but falling just the same. She tells me I'm so right,but doesn't know which...
Hi there, My Partner who I will call M was told last night by her Mom her father has Rectal Cancer.He is going to the Hospital on Friday to have a colonoscopy...
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