Phil,

Sadly I haven't even found one for myself. I will tell you an excellent
book (and at the end they have some contacts for support groups). The
book is called "survivors and partners" by Paul A Hansen and I would
classify this as a must read. It helped give me a new perspective that
I'm not alone and that I need to expect some of the feelings I have if I
choose to stay with my wife through this chapter. Good luck finding
something that provides the format you're in search of. Sorry I
couldn't help more.

Steve




--- In positivepartnersofsurvivors@yahoogroups.com, "the_unagog"
<unagog@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Group,
> I would like to introduce myself. I am new (1st day) and I am glad I
> found you. There are not too many resources out there for spouses of
> survivors of abuse.
> I have been living with my wife for 6 1/2 years and we have been
> married for 2. We have 2 small children.
> I suspected that my wife was the victim of childhood sexual abuse for
> quite some time, but she finally "told" me. "Told" is in quotes
> becuase she claimed it could have been an accident. She said her
> father sexually molested her. (that was no accident).
> She is a very angry woman, often taking her anger out on the children
> and me.
> Question for the group: Does anyone know if there is a support group
> for partners of people who were sexually abused as children? Kind of
> like AL-ANON.
> Thanks,
> Phil
>