Stacey ~ I can understand you wondering about all of the "what ifs"
at times. I know sometimes you just wish you could go back and try
and fix things. I agree, though, about the doctor listening to your
concerns. It is hard not to wonder if there could have been a
different outcome had your doctor listened to you. I think you are
just so strong and I can tell you are trying to move forward, but
also thinking of your angel.
love,
Michelle B.

--- In placentaabruption@yahoogroups.com, "mom2write2000"
<mom_2_write@h...> wrote:
> Thanks so much for your kind reply and welcome to the group. I
> really wonder if it was placental abruption, because as i
mentioned
> in my earlier post, i had felt movement in January and i wasn't
due
> for him until AUgust so it was way to early to feel Colton
moving. I
> really wish the doctors had paid more attention to my concerns. I
> really try hard not to live with what ifs, but yet as a mother, i
> have to wonder in the back of my mind that IF the doctors had done
> something when I toldhim i felt something was wrong and i was
under a
> tremendous amount of stress (long story) that MAYBE just MAYBE if
i
> had gone on bedrest that colton may be alive and with me today
> instead of being my little angel watching over us. SIgh, as i
said
> though, i really do try not to live with the what ifs, the fact is
my
> baby is gone and it is so hard to live with, thankfully my other
> children keep me busy and occupy my time, although colton is near
far
> from my mind.
> HUGS Stacey