Hi, I just discovered that my H is PA/CA only 2 weeks ago. The pain and the confusion I felt during these 14yrs of marriage to him is like a nightmare. His...
I do think PA behavior can be 'taught' to children. If your H wants a divorce, and you're hurt terribly over his behavior, maybe you should divorce. I can't...
Hi Jo, I am sorry to read of your situation. I have to tell you, even if your husband appears to want a divorce and you go ahead with the paperwork, he may...
Hi Jo, Welcome to the group. I hope you find some solace and comfort here...as well as helpful information. I know I have...this online Group really helped me...
I haven't seen any activity on the board for a while... I have a question about apologies. After having a calm and effective discussion with my DH, he had to...
Nothing works to see their own behavior, only to work on yourself. They never see anything they do is wrong...Kim In a message dated 9/3/2008 1:26:43 A.M....
I don't know that not speaking to him w/out an apology is retaliating. You have a boundary, you're keeping it. If you were being PA, you'd stomp off and not...
Kim said: Nothing works to see their own behavior, only to work on yourself. They never see anything they do is wrong...KimThis is not the case with my H--he...
Jen, you are very lucky, the majority of them will never face or see what reality is. I have heard of a few who went for therapy and did some self help and...
In a message dated 9/5/2008 11:56:34 P.M. Central Daylight Time, editorjenniferleigh@... writes: I know I'm lucky, but so is he. He has been enslaved...
Jen yes you are right, he is lucky to see the error in his ways, so many will not look within. Kim In a message dated 9/5/2008 11:56:34 P.M. Central Daylight...
I have an ex husband who is severely passive aggressive- he cant hold a job, is disconnected from most friends, and does not beleive in showing up on time,...
I have an issue that I can't seem to figure out with my PA husband. When he wants sex, he will grab my crotch or my chest. This does not, nor has it ever...
You may want to go to Recovery Nation and no-porn.com for support on this. This is more his sex addiction than his PA. He doesn't know how to connect sexually....
I've been with my Boyfriend for 10 months now, and following our last big fight 3 weeks ago, I started looking for some clues as to what was going on. So I...
The only way to help him is to set boundaries and see what happens. Tell him you're bringing either a mutual friend or a cop to come get your stuff. NEVER CALL...
Thank you for your input Jen, I will definatly take your advice. I really appreciate it, I can't believe I didn't figure it out before, I seem to be drawn to...
I dated SO MANY MEN like that. I had one man who never 'wanted' me unless I was with someone else. then, back he came, over and over. Found out later he didn't...
Thank you, I needed to hear that. I've dealt with self-esteem issues for most of my life, and I'm just reaching a point with myself where I don't have a...
I am going to be 50 in a week. You are young! Keep loving yourself. Jen To: passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com From: prncsskc@... Date: Wed, 8 Oct...
Hi Kacy and Jen, I agreed with Jen, this is a cycle, a toxic relationship actually if it is not broken. I have been through a emotional roller coaster for...
Just a shout out to any men in the group who might want to meet me for an intimate affair. Anyone interested should take a look at my homepage or come chat to...
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