I have stopped arguing with my bf, because it gets absolutely no where. I have been trying to get myself finically stable and then spring it on him...I call...
tell me about it!1 how about making it up to people who you hurt, then to find out that its all just not enough.. its tiring and sometimes you pour your heart...
I was complacent with the PA until I found out my hb was back to porn. Then I said, all righty, it all needs to be dealt with or you're out. My hb is back into...
In a message dated 10/2/2007 12:05:28 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, editorjenniferleigh@... writes: However, if he's inappropriate (which happens less...
In my state, keeping someone from leaving or taking their keys is against the law and I've called them on my hb. HIs night in jail helped him see I meant it. I...
Jen thank you....I need to hear myself talk about it, because I do not make it as bad in my mind, sounds worse when I type it. I am working on getting ...
In a message dated 10/2/2007 10:42:46 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, editorjenniferleigh@... writes: Ask yourself-- what am I getting out of enabling his...
In a message dated 6/11/2007 1:38:21 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, editorjenniferleigh@... writes: You know, relationships are always difficult. And men...
Hello, I'm new to this site. I have read over the previous messages and found it kind of refreshing. I have been married for almost 4 yrs (6yrs total)....
I have to tell you I had the same exact question also 6 months back. But my BF will not admit he is a PA and keeps telling me I am. I believe I am in touch...
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Hi My name is Lindsay and I am in desperate need for suggestions and solutions. It's more than obvious that the boyfriend I have had for 2 years is struggling...
Hi Lindsay, Welcome! Sounds like you are very observant. Congrats on coming to terms with the situation and trying to figure out a way to make it work for...
Lindsay-- What I see here is that since you are super willing and desiring to stay w/ him, he can pretty much do whatever he wants. I know you love him, but if...
_Passive-Aggressive HOWandWhy_ (http://passiveaggressive.homestead.com/howandwhy.html) Lindsay.....The above link talks about the people on the other end of a...
Monica... You are doing great, when I try and find the strength to take a stand for myself and leave, I get so much anxiety I cannot function... He has ...
Jen, I wanted to talk about boundaries. When I have tried to walk away, drive away or just not talk about it, he follows me, takes my keys, blocks doors...
Hi guys, Good stuff on here today. Funny, too, because my guy just pulled a fast p/a thing on me. So glad I have a forum here to vent safely. :) I am now...
I joined this group months ago when I realized my bf of 7 years is PA. We've been doing ok till the last couple months. We bought a house together in Sept and...
Hey Kim, Sounds like you're doing the best you can. It took me a real emergency at the house to make me leave. My guy lives his life in such chaos. Last year,...
Monica, did he ever make it there for New Year? And if he did, how was the rest of the night? The drain was clogged today and he tried to fix it because...
Christine, I know I am co dependent and need desperately to work on that. That is our answer, we cannot change them...I have been thinking of looking for a...
Monica, They do tend to do dangerous acts in their lives. My guy drives around in a car in my name and refuses to get his drivers license reinstated. I ...
WOW, This is making me realize more and more how similar all of our situations are. I too trusted my PA boyfriend and decided to buy a townhome last April....
