I'm now divorced after 27 years and am finding sooooo much peace. The divorce got nasty because he resisted everything, although I think the judge saw it....
Last weekend, I decided to try to give our marriage one more chance. We'd done some talking about getting a house, we talked about things, made some plans, had...
Since I've been there-- tell him to get recovery or get out. Go to meetings, find a sponsor, etc. PA and porn are very friendly-- control and a lack of...
Thanks, Jen...I know you know what I'm dealing with. There's got to be a reason I keep finding the stuff...I'm thinking it's a wake-up call for me. I'm...
I think the idea of kicking him out may not be the right one, not only because it's too scary, but recovery DOES work! My stand with my hb is: I will only live...
In searching through some of your old posts, I am struck by the familiar tone of it all. I never realized how very passive-aggressive my H is. It was...
I'm sorry for your pain. Though it may not seem like it, you're good to be rid of this man who is hurting you so badly. And the steps will help you. It may...
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Hi all. My name is Christine and I found this group and am looking for some support from those who have been through relationships with PA men. I am 38, my bf...
In a message dated 8/8/2007 12:28:53 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes: How do you get them to realize their behavior. I am going to...
Good advice. However, you can have boundaries such as not accepting the blame. By this I mean: When he blames, say: I can tell you're upset by the situation,...
Thanks for the insight. I had actually already sent the link. He told me just yesterday that he never looked at it. He got very angry with me saying he has...
My 12yr old didn't speak till was 3 and began school at that time for special education. He then was extremely shy up until around 3rd grade and has been more...
The human mind is an amazing thing. Research has proven if you can THINK of it, you can ACHIEVE it. And I don't just mean the minds of people like super rich...
hey im a new member.. i just read about p/a and i know i have it.. all symptoms and causes are a direct hit from what i received from my childhood to how i act...
Hi, Welcome to the p/a online support group. Took a lot of guts to admit you're a p/a and that you want to repair your friendships. Very cool stuff. Guess...
thanks. i've been meaning to get that book. i think ill go with fetching him a the airport when he comes by saturday. with my other friend, he just keeps on...
I have stopped arguing with my bf, because it gets absolutely no where. I have been trying to get myself finically stable and then spring it on him...I call...
tell me about it!1 how about making it up to people who you hurt, then to find out that its all just not enough.. its tiring and sometimes you pour your heart...
I was complacent with the PA until I found out my hb was back to porn. Then I said, all righty, it all needs to be dealt with or you're out. My hb is back into...
In a message dated 10/2/2007 12:05:28 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, editorjenniferleigh@... writes: However, if he's inappropriate (which happens less...
In my state, keeping someone from leaving or taking their keys is against the law and I've called them on my hb. HIs night in jail helped him see I meant it. I...
