Why does it still hurt? Why do I feel hurt and he doesn't? Why did I kick him out of our home? I couldn't take anymore stress, his ignoring me his ignoring my...
You know, relationships are always difficult. And men can be awful. I have to wonder-- is it really better being in a bad relationship than being alone? If...
Hang in there guys. I know it's weird. People tell me you know when enough is enough. Guess I try to do the pro/con list to see where I'm at when I'm...
I have a huge dilemma and want to handle it in a fascinating womanhood way.My mom just died and we have our house to deal with which has been negelected since...
my daughter who is 19 now, asked me tonight 'mom, is it bad all the anger that I have on myspace page' Oh, I feel so sorry for my girls that I let that N~ASS...
You know, I'm going to suggest this, and take what you like and leave the rest. You've made some changes by moving, way to go. Now, about the PA and all his...
I second Jen's thoughts - forgive him, not for his sake, but for yours. I'm assuming that since you've moved to another city you wouldn't be going to the same...
About this--I'm wondering if spiritual (and emotional) superficiality is actually a PA trait - my hb seems "disconnected" from the faith he's professed all his...
Yeah, unfortunately that seems to be true...better the dysfunction you know than the one you don't??? Which explains why some of us (me included!!!) seem so...
I'm not quite to the point of forgiveness yet~it's so hard to see my name slandered on so many internet psycho sites telling the world that I wished cancer on...
I've had to forgive some awful things in my life, incest, abuse, rapes. As yet, I never said I forgive you to any one of my perpetrators, though it would have...
I know that you are probably so tired of hearing from me, but I feel really scared and so hopeless. It's been the last few days. I've tried therapists.Forget...
--I do take medication~~~addicted to chaos...gee thanks..just what I needed to hear. - In passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com, "Mustoe " ... and perhaps...
I won't coddle you. Do you want help or do you want to stay lost? I am here for support, but I won't tolerate your berating me, and if you want to whine, I...
... not to be coddled as you say.Maybe you are a PA? Sure sounds like you have some anger issues that need working on.And how exactly was I berating you? I...
Take what you like and leave the rest. I am not the whole group. Perhaps others will have different support. I'm sorry you've chosen to take offense. Take...
this group because of what I posted last night and Jen's 'support' that she gave me. I certainly didn't want to be 'coddled' and I am on medication and if I...
I'm now divorced after 27 years and am finding sooooo much peace. The divorce got nasty because he resisted everything, although I think the judge saw it....
Last weekend, I decided to try to give our marriage one more chance. We'd done some talking about getting a house, we talked about things, made some plans, had...
Since I've been there-- tell him to get recovery or get out. Go to meetings, find a sponsor, etc. PA and porn are very friendly-- control and a lack of...
Thanks, Jen...I know you know what I'm dealing with. There's got to be a reason I keep finding the stuff...I'm thinking it's a wake-up call for me. I'm...
I think the idea of kicking him out may not be the right one, not only because it's too scary, but recovery DOES work! My stand with my hb is: I will only live...
In searching through some of your old posts, I am struck by the familiar tone of it all. I never realized how very passive-aggressive my H is. It was...
I'm sorry for your pain. Though it may not seem like it, you're good to be rid of this man who is hurting you so badly. And the steps will help you. It may...
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