My xbf that I have RO against hasc cancer. I didn't find out until the day of court when he used that to get off.I'm not sure if he's an 'N' but he is passive...
I remember going to a 12 step meeting for addicts and one of the women there said she wanted to really find out if she was an addict. She had a stressful...
First Name : Deborah Last Name : Zupa Sex : Female Age : 55 Occupation : using men City : statesville State : NC Alias 1 : Deb Alias 2 : Never wrong Alias 3 :...
How a man can just forget about 4 years,of the caring that I did, of ... NEVER ... stop, ... needed ... you ... easily ... for ... for me ... I ... down. ... ...
You are addicted to him, and maybe also to the pain he causes. When you get to the point that you're not taking care of your own kids, the question isn't, how...
Hi, my name is Sun Ye. I've been with my husband 16 years, married almost 12 of them. We have 2 daughters together. When we first met things were great. He...
Dear Sun, Welcome to the Support Group. It sounds like you've done all you can for the moment. It's actually a really good sign that your husband wants to...
I think the fact that he is confused rather than angry is a good sign. That book will help. If he wants to leave, I'd let him, and not worry that he has...
He's not actually willing to get help. He knows he has a problems but says he doesn't know what to do about it. He thinks he can fix it in his head. He...
He is both confused and angry at the same time. He gets mad whenever I confront him and says mean and awful threatening things. For instance this morning I...
I'm not sure my husband would read the book. I don't have a copy of it but I could ask him if he would be willing before I get a copy of it. I also have some...
Personally, I recommend you change yourself, which is all anyone can really do anyway. You sound like in not backing down you're angry. Though it's tempting...
In a message dated 5/17/2007 8:45:05 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, sunyeturner@... writes: I also have some PA tendencies but I think everyone does at...
Hi Sun Ye, Good that you were able to vent on this e-list rather than on him. I know it's easier said than done not to get into a fight. Don't beat yourself...
Monica, well said! Kim ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com. [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
I know everything you said is true and it's just hard for me to detach myself since we have kids. People say I'm too optimistic but I'd rather be optimistic...
well my long deserved break is over. It was really weird to be without responisiblities. I did a lot of thinking and read another book called The Surrendered...
Why does it still hurt? Why do I feel hurt and he doesn't? Why did I kick him out of our home? I couldn't take anymore stress, his ignoring me his ignoring my...
You know, relationships are always difficult. And men can be awful. I have to wonder-- is it really better being in a bad relationship than being alone? If...
Hang in there guys. I know it's weird. People tell me you know when enough is enough. Guess I try to do the pro/con list to see where I'm at when I'm...
I have a huge dilemma and want to handle it in a fascinating womanhood way.My mom just died and we have our house to deal with which has been negelected since...
my daughter who is 19 now, asked me tonight 'mom, is it bad all the anger that I have on myspace page' Oh, I feel so sorry for my girls that I let that N~ASS...
You know, I'm going to suggest this, and take what you like and leave the rest. You've made some changes by moving, way to go. Now, about the PA and all his...
I second Jen's thoughts - forgive him, not for his sake, but for yours. I'm assuming that since you've moved to another city you wouldn't be going to the same...
