In a message dated 3/31/2007 2:15:01 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes: I know this is the short version and my version, but what do...
Have you ever wondered why it is that some people seem to be born winners? You know the ones. Not only do they consistently get what they want, but they make...
OK guys I haven't been here in awhile but as D day (Divorce Day) is getting closer I guess he is getting more PA...I won't waste time venting about him though....
In a message dated 4/20/2007 9:13:09 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, poogolf@... writes: Oh and he even still tried to blame me for the divorce just a few...
not trying to say anything about the way anyone parents, but I think those of us with young children can try their best to not be controlling with our...
Well- Will try to make this short. My hb has become a diff person, and the PA is almost gone. Why? I found out he had relapsed on porn the Thurs before...
I hope that it continues for you, sounds like you guys are on the right path....Glad to hear of a success story..Kim ************************************** See...
Hi - I'm a mom of a 16 year old son who I believe falls under the description of PA. I am frustrated to the umpth degree. While he fits the description, I...
I hate to say it, but he sounds like a normal teenager who's learned to work his parents. I had one of those once upon a time! Find a ToughLove meeting in...
I think that many definitions of a PA person state that they show resistance to any demands, and often compare PA to a teen. Meaning it's perfectly normal for...
I agree with wisdomquest. It sounds like depression. My sister was depressed as a teenager, and your description of your son sounds a lot like her. She...
I want to thank everyone for the responses below. In fact, I am debating purchasing the book "Back in Control." I took his other book out of our library for...
Deb-- You are being the best mom you know how to be. He may end up PA, he may end up president of a large corporation. Keep searching on how to the be the...
Hi Jen, Sounds like you and your husband are really working through things. Congratulations, and I hope it continues. You have helped me in the past with some...
I deal with a lot of women whose hb's are in active addiction, and they keep asking how i got my hb to 'get better.' well, i set my boundary and he responded....
I think I did a PA thing today. Not that it makes me a PA person...I know most people do "PA things" from time to time...but it was still not a nice...
I didn't know you'd asked him to move out. And about the PA thing, boy I've done a load of them. I'm sorry things didn't progress better for you guys. Is he...
Yep...still doing porn. That's what prompted my asking him to leave - I found wrappers from some stuff in the trash at home. Of course, that was the first time...
Yeah, he's an addict not in recovery and needs to go. And what a joke, so it's ok to look at Kelly Ripa with clothes on? Gimme a break! When Craig was...
Tit for tat is a huge PA thing in my house hold. If I complain about something he is doing, either he will change the subject or turn the subject on whatever...
My xbf that I have RO against hasc cancer. I didn't find out until the day of court when he used that to get off.I'm not sure if he's an 'N' but he is passive...
I remember going to a 12 step meeting for addicts and one of the women there said she wanted to really find out if she was an addict. She had a stressful...
First Name : Deborah Last Name : Zupa Sex : Female Age : 55 Occupation : using men City : statesville State : NC Alias 1 : Deb Alias 2 : Never wrong Alias 3 :...
How a man can just forget about 4 years,of the caring that I did, of ... NEVER ... stop, ... needed ... you ... easily ... for ... for me ... I ... down. ... ...
You are addicted to him, and maybe also to the pain he causes. When you get to the point that you're not taking care of your own kids, the question isn't, how...
Hi, my name is Sun Ye. I've been with my husband 16 years, married almost 12 of them. We have 2 daughters together. When we first met things were great. He...
Dear Sun, Welcome to the Support Group. It sounds like you've done all you can for the moment. It's actually a really good sign that your husband wants to...
