The human mind is an amazing thing. Research has proven if you can THINK of it, you can ACHIEVE it. And I don't just mean the minds of people like super rich...
Hi guys, Haven't checked in for a while here...I saw some pretty weird emails lately from some people on here and started to get a little worried what kind of...
In a message dated 3/7/2007 5:18:29 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, monicaashton@... writes: It seems the more I try to talk things out with him, the worse...
Frankly, trying to reason with him is worthless. Even when they see things clearly, and you'd think, he'll admit wrongdoing now for sure, nope. they need...
Thanks for the responses on the denial. I see it has a lot to do with their need to control. Sad, really. I'm going to try to not get into things with him,...
I was wondering about something. For those of you who have chosen to stay in a relationship with your p-a, do you tell them you love them? Is there any point...
Wow. My hb tells me all the time, we say it all the time. I don't know that I could live with anyone who wouldn't even say that, to be honest. Jen PS he is in...
In a message dated 3/18/2007 9:37:58 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, piecesofthenight2006@... writes: PS he is in therapy now, but he's never been reluctant...
we don't say it very often, sometimes he will after sex I think it would be helpful, maybe I should try it he will say it when he writes it in a card but...
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No worries, And I love you! ... Jen ... From: piecesofthenight <piecesofthenight2006@...> To: p-a group <passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com> Date:...
5 years ago I had just broken it off with a man (boyfriend) that I was truly in love with and was in the middle of an emotional rollercoaster. In my stupidity...
I know this sounds odd, but why don't you leave? You sound as if you can get back into the work world. If you want to stay, you have several choices-- one,...
In a message dated 3/31/2007 2:15:01 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes: I know this is the short version and my version, but what do...
Have you ever wondered why it is that some people seem to be born winners? You know the ones. Not only do they consistently get what they want, but they make...
OK guys I haven't been here in awhile but as D day (Divorce Day) is getting closer I guess he is getting more PA...I won't waste time venting about him though....
In a message dated 4/20/2007 9:13:09 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, poogolf@... writes: Oh and he even still tried to blame me for the divorce just a few...
not trying to say anything about the way anyone parents, but I think those of us with young children can try their best to not be controlling with our...
Well- Will try to make this short. My hb has become a diff person, and the PA is almost gone. Why? I found out he had relapsed on porn the Thurs before...
I hope that it continues for you, sounds like you guys are on the right path....Glad to hear of a success story..Kim ************************************** See...
Hi - I'm a mom of a 16 year old son who I believe falls under the description of PA. I am frustrated to the umpth degree. While he fits the description, I...
I hate to say it, but he sounds like a normal teenager who's learned to work his parents. I had one of those once upon a time! Find a ToughLove meeting in...
I think that many definitions of a PA person state that they show resistance to any demands, and often compare PA to a teen. Meaning it's perfectly normal for...
I agree with wisdomquest. It sounds like depression. My sister was depressed as a teenager, and your description of your son sounds a lot like her. She...
I want to thank everyone for the responses below. In fact, I am debating purchasing the book "Back in Control." I took his other book out of our library for...
Deb-- You are being the best mom you know how to be. He may end up PA, he may end up president of a large corporation. Keep searching on how to the be the...
