Is it bad to be passive aggressive to the point where you just want life to be in balance and not rock the boat and to be a peacemaker without hurting anyone?...
The term passive aggressive is misleading, because it sounds like sometimes you're passive, sometimes you're aggressive. In actuality it means that you're...
Hi everyone in the group, I joined about 10 days ago, but didn't see anyone posting, so I just kind of lurked for a while. My name is Debra and I live in...
Hi there again, this is the new person, Debra. I haven't seen any messages from this group and was wondering what everyone was up to. It's probably been a busy...
If he is good at fixing things up and actually does them when you ask, I'd have to wonder if he's PA or has intimacy/commitment issues. My hb acts like I've...
This site has some good suggestions: http://www.passiveaggressive.homestead.com/SUGGESTIONS.html About my boyfriend helping me out around the house, yes, I...
The Christmas incident was actually the second time I really tried to push him into including me in a more 'serious' aspect of his life. The first was his...
Hi group, Tonight I saw the b/f. Went by his house after work Fri. night but he didn't want to do anything because of having to work Saturday. Said he would...
Hi again group, After my last post, I thought about it and decided I was doing thinking for both me and the b/f, so I wrote him a letter and will put it on his...
I agree. And make some plans for at least one weekend night this weekend by Tuesday. Do NOT wait for him to ask you out. Jen ... From: piecesofthenight...
I think it's great you're asking for what you want, but don't back down. And frankly, every person has problems, but if I were single and knew I was dating...
Thanks, Jen, and hi group, You're right, I have probably let this go on too long. I met him a couple months after I separated from my husband, then after the...
My therapist in college said to always be dating a few people at one time, then I wouldn't get too focused (and tolerate too much crap) from any one guy. My...
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married to my wife for 28 years. Passive aggressive behavior has become prevalent in the last 8 years. failed with several different counselors. She outright...
Hi Tony, I don't know how much help I will be. I am not dealing with a passive-aggressive spouse who I have many years invested in. But I have done a lot of...
Hey Debra, Thanks a lot for the reply. I agree that info is power. I am really suffering with this as her actions have a negative effect on our whole family....
I have a lot to read and am having some trouble getting it. i learn best by sight/example. I have taken excerps from several articles and will include them in ...
I may be in a little different situation because my hb is in therapy and does admit to being PA. But his recovery is very slow. But I decided (w/ the help...
Thanxs Jen, I have a lot of history with my bride. Going back to being teenagers in 1969. 38 years, 3 children, 1 grandson, losing both our fathers and my...
Tony, did you say in your first post this behavior just began recently? Maybe there is a medical condition behind it. I have heard of people having a chemical...
It started about 8 years ago after my wifes father passed on. He had a stroke on February 14th and suffered for more than a year before he finally passed away....
I have a friend (not a very close friend or I would have known this sooner) whom I've recently discovered exhibits a lot of PA traits. She has been accused of...
You may want to tackle this if and when she complains about things, and I'm sure she complains to you, right? If she's complaining that she lost another...
Hello Group, Just joined. My fiancee (we've been together for 4 years now) seems to have all the characteristics of PAPD. I've never been with someone like...
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I'll be honest, I've looked for the good in my hb because we have a child. If I'd known before we were married and had a child, I'd run like heck. Sorry. Jen ...
