I had the strangest thing happen to me today. I live in Texas, and it's never very cold here. But the last few days it's been a little colder, and very ...
I'm giving support to my son lately, who's trying to pull his life together. He has been really up for a while and he crashed today. I think we forget that...
Jen, thanks for the words of comfort and wisdom. Where do you live, that Tex-Mex can brighten your spirit? And with or without a margarita? In my case, I...
I grew up in So Cal (Newport Beach) so we ate a lot of Tex-Mex food. I'm Utah now and miss Ca's good food, but we have a pretty good restaurant in our town. No...
Jen, I do appreciate your sharing your experience about hating the men who r*ped you, and wishing them all kinds of damage. You said you'd felt that way for...
I was in therapy and also working a lot on my own: journaling, praying, exercising, self-talk, support people. I got there, I guess, because I couldn't live...
Thanks again for sharing with me, Jen. I sure envy your peace and acceptance. I know it's becoming harder and harder for me to deal with the anger, and I...
Hang in there Lisa, I am getting out of my 27 yr marriage as we speak. Yeah I love what you say about them blaming you for the sun setting in the evening....
Your brain is the seat of your intelligence and source of your emotions ... and so it controls your entire life. Everyone knows that any improvement you can...
Is it bad to be passive aggressive to the point where you just want life to be in balance and not rock the boat and to be a peacemaker without hurting anyone?...
The term passive aggressive is misleading, because it sounds like sometimes you're passive, sometimes you're aggressive. In actuality it means that you're...
Hi everyone in the group, I joined about 10 days ago, but didn't see anyone posting, so I just kind of lurked for a while. My name is Debra and I live in...
Hi there again, this is the new person, Debra. I haven't seen any messages from this group and was wondering what everyone was up to. It's probably been a busy...
If he is good at fixing things up and actually does them when you ask, I'd have to wonder if he's PA or has intimacy/commitment issues. My hb acts like I've...
This site has some good suggestions: http://www.passiveaggressive.homestead.com/SUGGESTIONS.html About my boyfriend helping me out around the house, yes, I...
The Christmas incident was actually the second time I really tried to push him into including me in a more 'serious' aspect of his life. The first was his...
Hi group, Tonight I saw the b/f. Went by his house after work Fri. night but he didn't want to do anything because of having to work Saturday. Said he would...
Hi again group, After my last post, I thought about it and decided I was doing thinking for both me and the b/f, so I wrote him a letter and will put it on his...
I agree. And make some plans for at least one weekend night this weekend by Tuesday. Do NOT wait for him to ask you out. Jen ... From: piecesofthenight...
I think it's great you're asking for what you want, but don't back down. And frankly, every person has problems, but if I were single and knew I was dating...
Thanks, Jen, and hi group, You're right, I have probably let this go on too long. I met him a couple months after I separated from my husband, then after the...
My therapist in college said to always be dating a few people at one time, then I wouldn't get too focused (and tolerate too much crap) from any one guy. My...
The Many Important Secrets You Will Discover Include: How to Heal Any Disease, Illness or Ailment, However Serious It Might Seem How to Attract Anything At All...
Please check out my blog. It's in its beginning stages, but I hope to start my own editing business proper and would like you to check this out! ;>) Jen ...
married to my wife for 28 years. Passive aggressive behavior has become prevalent in the last 8 years. failed with several different counselors. She outright...
Hi Tony, I don't know how much help I will be. I am not dealing with a passive-aggressive spouse who I have many years invested in. But I have done a lot of...
Hey Debra, Thanks a lot for the reply. I agree that info is power. I am really suffering with this as her actions have a negative effect on our whole family....
