before posting here. WOW, do you know how strange it is to see my *life* posted in this forum in so many ways...I'm not as CRAZY as he claims. I am frustrated...
GRRRRRRRRRRRRR...am going into the anger phase of this 12 yr relationship. We own a home and Business together, yet, I have no access to bank accounts,...
Welcome to the group. I hope you find as much support and insight from this group as I have...when you think you're the only one who deals with this nonsense,...
I guess it must be a pattern with THEM! A year and a half ago I asked my hb to clean his junk, paperwork, unopened mail off our dining room table. Now mind...
My hb rarely finishes anything. He is now in the middle of getting ready for hunting, is depressed because he doesn't have enough time, money, etc. but i...
With my hb, it's not really his "stuff" - it's primarily trash that he's left behind. So he has NOOOOOO problem with me cleaning it up. But I can imagine how...
My mother, who turned 77 on Sept 30, was told that she needs to go on medication for high blood pressure and high cholesterol, and then was told she needs to...
Anurisms are not caused by smoking. It is a genetic defect in the elasticity of an artery. Smoking is very addictive and it is extremely difficult to quit....
JS
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Oct 4, 2006 2:07 pm
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Let's see-- it's about me because I don't want to lose my mother, my son's grandmother. It's about my grief. I appreciate your info about her other health...
Hey Jen, So sorry you are having your plate overloaded right now. It is about YOU. YOU are the one being called on for help by your Mother....sounds like Mom...
Maybe this is not a passive aggressive issue. Maybe this is about her addiction problem to nicotine. Why is addiction to a chemical substance considered...
JS
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Oct 5, 2006 4:20 am
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No, I'm not saying that automatically someone who has weight and smoking issues is PA, but there is some of that in her. I married a PA, so I must have been...
Hello JS, When I was looking for info regarding PA personalities, I happend upon this group. Before I posted I started with mssg #1 and read through 452 mssgs...
I had a interesting situation this week whereby my partner Peter very much dissapointed me by pulling another PA rug from under me just when I least expected...
Good post, Di, and good on ya for your 8 months. Thx for sharing your great epiphany. I have found out from being married to a PA that if I don't take care of...
Enjoyed your post! I'm very proud of you for finding the strength to not let him reign you in. I also think it's great that you've found the support of AA....
Good Evening Listmates! After almost 13 yrs of marriage in a downward spiraling path with a PA hb, Ive left him, but during the week only. I must be back at...
Hmmm Living with a PA is painful, and since you are happier without him, i'd just take the next step. but i see his mopping as an effort, and i hate to turn...
Thanks Jen... Yes I understsnd what you are saying...BUT, mopping the living room floor was his intro into wanting to talk about business finances, and how he...
Yes Jen...it is very painful, Because I still Love Him...I just don't like him anymore. I'm now in the process of trying to let go of the feelings of *what we ...
I can tell you're happier, and that is the key. If you couldn't do it alone, or didn't want to, you wouldn't. I can tell he's manipulating. How can you tell...
what could have been has kept many a marriage together, but not happily. i have a friend who has stayed married to her sex addict husband, and he finally filed...
OK Girls listen up you will know when you are done, it came over me one day and I have never felt anything like it in all of my 27 years of marriage until it...
Hi Britt I love this post I even copied it and sent it to a friend.....I could have been writing this.....IT WAS SO GOOD..... I just wanted to let you guys...
the yes and no thing, so true! my hb will turn himself into a pretzel rather than give a direct answer. my hb is off hunting and it is always horrible as he...
i am really working to be okay in my marriage, but i hate my bd. my hb sort of tries, but he really let me down today. and when i express being let down, oh...
oh Jen, I am so sorry. It sucks to have hb let you down but that is expected. Too bad that no one else made you feel special. Ick. I just got back from a...
it is amazing that my hb operates on PA behavior so often with so little knowledge of it. it's sometimes funny, or is beginning to be. sorry for the camping...
