ok, last weekend stunk. my hb was soooo manipulative and i was ready to pack his stuff. things are only better because i'm ignoring him for the most part....
I've been thinking a lot about anger lately, because I am angry at my hb almost all the time. I'm PMS right now, so that only exacerbates things. *sigh*...
Though this may be slightly off topic, I'd love to hear from those of you that read fantasy novels, especially those written for tweens and teens. Could you...
Jen, my hb does this too (leaves the house without a cell phone, I always have to remind him). I think he just doesn't want me to be able to get ahold of him...
I haven't posted in awhile....last you probably heard was we were waiting until our son finished his senior year. Well HB got mad one night and went down and...
Cindy: Hang in there! This will work out for the best for you (but I think you already know that!). Keep us posted. Lisa ... From: Cindy Lou <poogolf@...> ...
Hello I am writing because I feel like I'm at my wits end. I want to say my hb's pa is getting worse, and it may be, but i think the problem is, i let down my...
Children would rather be from a broken home than live in one (as Dr. Phil puts it). It's not fair for children to be caught in the middle. The only way...
not sure I agree with Dr Phil on this one. I talked with support this morning, and need to reframe my thinking at this time. I am in a difficult marriage,...
before posting here. WOW, do you know how strange it is to see my *life* posted in this forum in so many ways...I'm not as CRAZY as he claims. I am frustrated...
GRRRRRRRRRRRRR...am going into the anger phase of this 12 yr relationship. We own a home and Business together, yet, I have no access to bank accounts,...
Welcome to the group. I hope you find as much support and insight from this group as I have...when you think you're the only one who deals with this nonsense,...
I guess it must be a pattern with THEM! A year and a half ago I asked my hb to clean his junk, paperwork, unopened mail off our dining room table. Now mind...
My hb rarely finishes anything. He is now in the middle of getting ready for hunting, is depressed because he doesn't have enough time, money, etc. but i...
With my hb, it's not really his "stuff" - it's primarily trash that he's left behind. So he has NOOOOOO problem with me cleaning it up. But I can imagine how...
My mother, who turned 77 on Sept 30, was told that she needs to go on medication for high blood pressure and high cholesterol, and then was told she needs to...
Anurisms are not caused by smoking. It is a genetic defect in the elasticity of an artery. Smoking is very addictive and it is extremely difficult to quit....
JS
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Oct 4, 2006 2:07 pm
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Let's see-- it's about me because I don't want to lose my mother, my son's grandmother. It's about my grief. I appreciate your info about her other health...
Hey Jen, So sorry you are having your plate overloaded right now. It is about YOU. YOU are the one being called on for help by your Mother....sounds like Mom...
Maybe this is not a passive aggressive issue. Maybe this is about her addiction problem to nicotine. Why is addiction to a chemical substance considered...
JS
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No, I'm not saying that automatically someone who has weight and smoking issues is PA, but there is some of that in her. I married a PA, so I must have been...
Hello JS, When I was looking for info regarding PA personalities, I happend upon this group. Before I posted I started with mssg #1 and read through 452 mssgs...
I had a interesting situation this week whereby my partner Peter very much dissapointed me by pulling another PA rug from under me just when I least expected...
Good post, Di, and good on ya for your 8 months. Thx for sharing your great epiphany. I have found out from being married to a PA that if I don't take care of...
Enjoyed your post! I'm very proud of you for finding the strength to not let him reign you in. I also think it's great that you've found the support of AA....
Good Evening Listmates! After almost 13 yrs of marriage in a downward spiraling path with a PA hb, Ive left him, but during the week only. I must be back at...
Hmmm Living with a PA is painful, and since you are happier without him, i'd just take the next step. but i see his mopping as an effort, and i hate to turn...
Thanks Jen... Yes I understsnd what you are saying...BUT, mopping the living room floor was his intro into wanting to talk about business finances, and how he...
