The posts regarding PA are right on. I did not see this in its full glory until we had several family crisises come up. If you are not married, please please...
Thx Missy. My hb and i are in therapy and my hb is *just* beginning to recognize that practically everything he says and does is PA dominated. blech. ...
Hi everyone, thankyou for your support. yesterday I got a text from Peter asking me if would talk... I have had a lot of support and done a lot of thinking,...
good for you! keep the resolve. expect that he will try to get back, OR you will feel sad and want him back. talk to us when things get rough. jen dianey1959...
Diane, it is clear that you took some time to think this through. Good for you, keep your head up, keep us informed. These PA guys are very dependant so...
Hi all, Well, I found out that my hb has told his sister part of a incident which makes me look like I need a straightjacket. She apparently told him she was...
We've been married 3 years and I've traced the beginning of our problems back to when I became pregnant with our first child. When I first met my husband he...
Hi Hope Glad you found us. Frankly, there are a few things in your letter that tell me you've already made up your mind and well you should go with these gut...
Hope, I am very sad because the description you wrote is so much like my hb. Many of the things you wrote are the same. The good thing is you found this group!...
I need some pointers about how I should approach him about the divorce. I mean, it's no secret that I want one...I have filed already. It's just that...
First, sorry, Hope that you have to go thru this. I will say a prayer for you. Second, get a lawyer who can give you good advice. Third, you won't keep your...
Hi everyone, I have been very busy trying to work on a project that is due the beginning of Sept. My hb has sooo many important things that he has to get done...
Prayer said. We went to therapy yesterday, too. Funny day yesterday. It was the last day of summer vacation for my hb, a teacher. hb has basically ignored...
I am coming to you, my friend(s), asking if you know anyone who needs a good editor, namely me. My job at Writers Literary has slowed down dramatically in the...
Jen I always get a good laugh out of the things you say-I wonder if my husbands friends WOULD take him in. They don't have any yard work, that would make my...
yes, i edit online. hard copy? no way. if you can find me some work, you'll be my best friend forever! ;>) i'm happy for the progress. my hb seems to be...
ok, last weekend stunk. my hb was soooo manipulative and i was ready to pack his stuff. things are only better because i'm ignoring him for the most part....
I've been thinking a lot about anger lately, because I am angry at my hb almost all the time. I'm PMS right now, so that only exacerbates things. *sigh*...
Though this may be slightly off topic, I'd love to hear from those of you that read fantasy novels, especially those written for tweens and teens. Could you...
Jen, my hb does this too (leaves the house without a cell phone, I always have to remind him). I think he just doesn't want me to be able to get ahold of him...
I haven't posted in awhile....last you probably heard was we were waiting until our son finished his senior year. Well HB got mad one night and went down and...
Cindy: Hang in there! This will work out for the best for you (but I think you already know that!). Keep us posted. Lisa ... From: Cindy Lou <poogolf@...> ...
Hello I am writing because I feel like I'm at my wits end. I want to say my hb's pa is getting worse, and it may be, but i think the problem is, i let down my...
Children would rather be from a broken home than live in one (as Dr. Phil puts it). It's not fair for children to be caught in the middle. The only way...
not sure I agree with Dr Phil on this one. I talked with support this morning, and need to reframe my thinking at this time. I am in a difficult marriage,...
before posting here. WOW, do you know how strange it is to see my *life* posted in this forum in so many ways...I'm not as CRAZY as he claims. I am frustrated...
GRRRRRRRRRRRRR...am going into the anger phase of this 12 yr relationship. We own a home and Business together, yet, I have no access to bank accounts,...
Welcome to the group. I hope you find as much support and insight from this group as I have...when you think you're the only one who deals with this nonsense,...
I guess it must be a pattern with THEM! A year and a half ago I asked my hb to clean his junk, paperwork, unopened mail off our dining room table. Now mind...
