Hey, I just wanted to tell everybodyl, I was invited to be a presenter at a writing conference to talk about being an editor. I'm really jazzed! Jen ...
coud use some support here re: mother's move to UT. and other things i am slightly a mess. craig had a huge pout fest the first week. it was horrible. my...
Jen, Sounds like a mess. My family was basically disfunctional growing up. My grandfather grew up during the depression so he had an affinity for drunks, ...
one good thing-- my hb knows he is PA and is working on the behaviors. someday, hopefully not too far in the future, he will do the deep work required to...
Hi there! I'm not exactly sure how to do all of this since its my hb that is the computer person. I have been married 10 years and have 2 children. One is...
I hope everyone had a great 4th! My kids just loved the fireworks. Oh, and thanks so much for the prayers! We planned a camping trip and since my son is extra...
since my hb is admitting to PA, i don't know what to say to ppl who are married to ppl who won't admit it. i'm glad he apologized. i think you might need to...
Missy......your husband and mine would make a great pair. It's sicking!!! I feel for you, I know what you are going thru. I've posted "My Situation" which...
I am wondering if you find your spouse to be distant, almost like there is an avoidance of emotional closeness, and like you are not always sure who he is?? I...
PA and porn addiction are hand in hand. Many PAs are addicts, probably because it gives them that distance from intimacy. I'm so sorry you have suffered, and...
Jen......no, I did not prosecute my stesons in a court situation. When my daughters told me and I confronted the boys.....one said he had no memory (even his...
Oh yeah, I know and I will not allow my younger daughter any contact with their half brothers. My husband feels I have just blown the situation out of...
Say Jennifer, my sign in name is actually the name of a horse I leased, Vandy, I took her to some shows, what a sweety, anyway, I love horses and haven't...
Yesterday afternoon, my husband called me at work. He said, "You need to come home." He explained that he was at the urgent care clinic - he'd gone there...
oh, we go thru that here. my hb can't wait to get sick and is thrilled when he gets prescriptions. i'm sorry for this, for you and your sick (meaning sick...
My hb does not get sick, he just completely stops helping. The year we adopted our daughter, my son was diagnosed just after that with autism and then my dad...
According to this, I don't qualify to sing the Blues on several counts, but this is cute, nonetheless. Enjoy! 1. Most Blues begin with: "Woke up this...
I told my Hb that the book about living with the passive aggressive man was something that we both needed to look at and read. He did start reading it,...
missy! that's great! you're right-- who cares why he thinks he's changing? at some pt, he will really look deeper, after he feels so good about being...
My Xbf was diagnosed as PA, a manipulator and a game player. After over 3 years with him, my teen daughters and I are a MESS! We can't function and it feels as...
keep him gone. he sounds like a lost cause, and your girls are learning very destructive habits between men and women. if you need more support, you could go...
Don't worry - it won't last. PA's typically have short attention spans. As soon as the come to rely/depend on him - he'll flake on them too. ooopsgurl2000...
I really need your help. My bf and I have had a rocky 3 years together. He's a compulsive liar, PA and a manipulator.I've asked him to leave my apt. many times...
honestly, if you read this story and pretend it wasn't about you, you'd tell the woman, keep him OUT, he's nothing but trouble. if you aren't in therapy,...
You sound desperate and let me say that they can keep you so confused and ATTACHED. I've been married to mine for almost 27 years and just 6 months ago when a...
Purposely withholds from you what you want and need in the relationship......................WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT SOMEONE THAT DOES THAT? Get Out!!! HUGS...