I'm a passive aggressive, I use it to defend myself, to get my own way. I hate that part of myself. It's dishonest and weak. It drives my partner crazy, and it...
Bob, How do you know that you are a passive aggressive? How did you learn of the behavior and what are you doing about it, assuming that there is something to...
Boy does that sum it up! How can you fix something that you don't know is broken because you don't even know that it is broken or not. But, someone has told...
i am looking for info on the possible origins of PAPD. Cson Johnson Silversmith Jack Russell Terriers Texas Jack Russell Rescue "Don't wish me happiness - I...
Hello all I am new. I read through the posts and saw that some folks maybe looking for info. I came across a link below that has different sites listed. I...
Anyone read the book with this similar title on PA's and the victim? How does the victim deal with this behavior? anyone know what the author suggests? Anyone...
-this is a book on line designed for a therapist, PA man and victim. I am looking for info right now about it from the folks here. The book is expensive, but...
I haven't read it. I remember awhile back someone told me that you can rent books from Amazon/or listen to them? I hope I am remembering right. You might...
Hello all, I have to admit, I have done some crazy, and strange things, that aren't like me in the last few relationships I have had. My partners were chronic...
Hi I'm married to a PA man and could use some support. Holy cow! What a mess this is! I just realized my h is PA and though it's opened my eyes, I really...
Hi there, I have been married to a PA man for almost 10 years, some days are better than others but we have certainly had our ups and downs. Over the years, I...
Hi I'm glad you posted. I think it probably would help you to read the book again. I know what you mean about being depressed, but there are some tactics and...
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... total, 24 married to this one, and until I started reading up a few days ago, I thought it was me,,, I was CRAZY, or so he has my kids thinkin as much as...
I have been married 24 , ( together 27 yr ) to this pa, while never even knowing what it was, thinkin it was me, as he lead me and our 3 children to believe...
hi tough story. pa behavior is awful and does make you nuts. i suggest two things: get some books (amazon has them cheap) and read about passive aggression...
Hi, I have been with my husband for 17 years.....raised his 2 sons along with my 2 daughters and 1 of our own. Problem is that every time I addressed a...
Annette Honestly, it sounds to me like you've got it pretty together. You know what you're dealing with, you've set strong limits, you are able and willing to...
Okay, I am being put into another position, and this is a perfect example what happens. Lots of trouble with his side, to the point that I really don't want to...
unless the f-i-l is abusive, go and put up with the beers and the jokes. i put up w/ my h's family, and sometimes i even have fun. it's one night. sorry if...
Jen....I did go and I am glad I did. I have had hard feeling for my FIL for leaving his wife in a nursing home and traveling with a neice for the past 2 years....
good deal i'm proud of you. jen Annette <Annette122362@...> wrote: Jen....I did go and I am glad I did. I have had hard feeling for my FIL for leaving his...
Yeah, I was feeling pretty good about the dinner too until I asked my husband if he had said anything to his dad about me being upset he was traveling with his...
you have been thru a lot. if you aren't in a face to face support group, find one. any one will do, but al-anon would be a good place to start, even if...
I have the book ordered....your last sentence caught my eye...when you said PAs love to stir the pot. I guess I have a lot to learn. I like the not sharing...
My husband admitted to me today that the reason he would not act on the issues WE TALKED about with his sons is because what concerned me was not an issue to...
hold on your husband has shared honest feelings with you, something many pa's don't even do. your feelings are important, but nobody's feelings are more...
Jen....I think the way you looked at the situation is a good and positive one. Certainly something I am not thinking right now. The boys don't live near...
it's really easy to feel hateful and blame the PA, but you really are in charge of your feelings and how you behave. your hb did share good things, so that's...
