Hello all: I am a 42 year old woman who was abandoned by my husband of 8 months recently for reacting really badly to his latest - he had been taping our...
I don't think any of us can tell you what to do, nor should we. However, you don't have to file for divorce tomorrow, either. Let him stay away if you can,...
Jen: Thanks for the fast response: I have felt so alone. I had to file for legal separation because he is taking out loans and I may be responsible for 50%...
there's always hope that you will learn from this, that you can take your time to make decisions (though if he's doing wierd $ things, you do need to keep away...
Jen, I agree about "not having to file for divorce tomorrow"............... after having a vicous, venom spewing arguement in the kitchen this past Mon. with...
Jen and Mary: Thanks for your support. I'll try to be patient, and not to react just to react, and I will go to therapy. I hope he comes around, but the...
I will say this, my hb and i have been thru hell, but I love him forever, he's my best friend, and we make each other nuts, but oh well. there's progress...
Next Wednesday! Think about this if you have nothing better to do right now!!!! On Wednesday of next week, at two minutes and three seconds after 1:00 in the...
oh how funny....I love silly fascinating things about the world.......this is one of them... thank you for the short distraction. [Non-text portions of this...
I try to take care of myself, not fall into his traps, and not get angry. But holding my feelings in leads to what I've had yesterday and today...long, LONG...
i think you're doing for you what you can, but if that isn't enough, you might need to come up with a Plan B that says you leave your hb. Sorry it's been so...
I know, I think about that plan B a lot but in some important ways it's almost more unattractive than staying. The number 1 reason is that my daughter loves...
you have a reason for staying, so stay on your terms. detach. don't get hurt by him. it isn't easy to do, but quit trying to be happy with him and be happy...
Your right but some days that's not so easy. I don't look to him for any sort of happiness(quiet civility would be nice) but he just seems to go out of his way...
nothing can hurt you that you don't let in. if he's going out of his way, do something different, walk out of the room, hang up the phone, take a walk, call a...
I read your msg and thought, this is hilarious! i guess i have gotten so used to my hb's silly PA that it's usually so funny i laugh. the shirts in the...
You said "His latest favorite lines are, "I don't remember saying/doing that." or,"I didn't mean it that way. You're just too sensitive/twisting things...
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is it possible that a hb not be in that "mood" all the time, or just when something sets him off? reason for asking: he's driven when I didn't want to he's...
Hey Michelle. Keep your head up. Wow. I am 43 and am facing the same cross-road. We have been married 8 years. I left for a couple of days and realized I...
I struggle a lot with my hb and his way of doing things half-way. We both work outside the home full time, so I just can't do everything myself around the...
I look at the situation this way. First off, my hb had NO training as a kid because his mother was a slob. Second, my hb really doesn't see things that need...
what was the book, Jen? Jennifer Mustoe <authoreditor_jenniferleigh@...> wrote: however, i did order him a book from ebay about PA. happy easter! look...
The decision whether to stay in a marriage with a PA husband or to leave is a very difficult one...I don't think anyone here would disagree with that! There's...
We have decided to go through a "structured separation" agreement, which basically means we live apart for 90 days, do not speak to each other, go through...
I've had friends who've had a period of abstinence (sexual) and they thought it was great. I think it will be interesting for you, and you will see how linked...
Very true. My hb turned into fulltime PA about a year ago. I don't even recognize him as the man I chose to love and marry. On the upside, I'm not a good...
I have seen alot of information suggesting that it is a good idea. I have even seen it in the context of problem solving for christian couples - the articles...
Debra Tried to IM you. Do you have Yahoo IM? Jen my IM is jensdogshadow debra holloway <dh124w126@...> wrote: I have seen alot of information suggesting...
I think it is easier for him because he is staying with friends who probably buy his story that it is all my fault. But that has to wear thin for anyone after...
