Thank you, I needed to hear that. I've dealt with self-esteem issues
for most of my life, and I'm just reaching a point with myself where I
don't have a reason to feel down on myself. I still revert back to
those issues however when a relationship ends without my even knowing
something was wrong, I begin to doubt myself and start asking, 'what is
wrong with me, and why can't someone love me?? I'm 28 and have reached
that point where I'm ready to settle down, but every time my
relationships fail, I fall back into that mentality, that I'm going to
be the crazy old cat lady... It's a tough cycle to break, but I get
better each time :P

Kacy

--- In passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com, Jennifer Leigh
<editorjenniferleigh@...> wrote:
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>
> I dated SO MANY MEN like that. I had one man who never 'wanted' me
unless I was with someone else. then, back he came, over and over.
Found out later he didn't just not want me, he was gay. Yes, I can
pick 'em all right!
> I do think that it's a confidence thing. Recognize that you have much
to offer to a man and he is fortunate that you care, not the other way
around.
> Good luck!
> Jen
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