You may want to go to Recovery Nation and no-porn.com for support on this. This
is more his sex addiction than his PA. He doesn't know how to connect sexually.
You may also want to find a Recovering Couples Anonymous meeting and start going
together, see a therapist, singly or as a couple, or buy Carnes' Open Hearts
workbook.
Good luck
Jen

To: passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com
From: angeleyes2blue@...
Date: Sun, 21 Sep 2008 04:52:46 +0000
Subject: [Passive Aggressive Support] Let's talk about S E X...




















I have an issue that I can't seem to figure out with my PA husband.

When he wants sex, he will grab my crotch or my chest. This does not,

nor has it ever turned me on and he knows that as I've told him

several times "I don't like that" and will give him other suggestions

as to what I do like. I understand that this behavior is very

immature and perhaps that is why it is such a turn off to me.

Considering these are his ONLY advancements for sex, I don't know what

to do anymore about it. He does not listen when I tell him I don't

like it. I feel like I'm being assaulted and am repulsed by his

advances. I initiate sex once or twice a week, so it's not like he's

not getting any. He is working a 12 step program for porn addiction,

so I think that may have something to do with it. I hope this isn't

too forward. Any suggestions on what I can say/do?
























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