I have an issue that I can't seem to figure out with my PA husband.
When he wants sex, he will grab my crotch or my chest. This does not,
nor has it ever turned me on and he knows that as I've told him
several times "I don't like that" and will give him other suggestions
as to what I do like. I understand that this behavior is very
immature and perhaps that is why it is such a turn off to me.
Considering these are his ONLY advancements for sex, I don't know what
to do anymore about it. He does not listen when I tell him I don't
like it. I feel like I'm being assaulted and am repulsed by his
advances. I initiate sex once or twice a week, so it's not like he's
not getting any. He is working a 12 step program for porn addiction,
so I think that may have something to do with it. I hope this isn't
too forward. Any suggestions on what I can say/do?