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Kim said:
















Nothing works to see their own behavior, only to work on yourself.
They

never see anything they do is wrong...KimThis is not the case with my H--he
knows he's PA, been reading a book about it, and is working to be more
assertive, so difficult for him. I tell him when he's being PA and though he's
not always thrilled when I tell him, I notice he doesn't do that behavior
anymore.The truth hurts.
Jen

















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I haven't seen any activity on the board for a while... I have a question about apologies. After having a calm and effective discussion with my DH, he had to...
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Sep 3, 2008
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Nothing works to see their own behavior, only to work on yourself. They never see anything they do is wrong...Kim In a message dated 9/3/2008 1:26:43 A.M....
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Kim said: Nothing works to see their own behavior, only to work on yourself. They never see anything they do is wrong...KimThis is not the case with my H--he...
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I don't know that not speaking to him w/out an apology is retaliating. You have a boundary, you're keeping it. If you were being PA, you'd stomp off and not...
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Sep 3, 2008
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Jen, you are very lucky, the majority of them will never face or see what reality is. I have heard of a few who went for therapy and did some self help and...
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Sep 5, 2008
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I know I'm lucky, but so is he. He has been enslaved by this behavior his whole life, and he's no spring chicken (56 in Jan.) Jen To:...
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In a message dated 9/5/2008 11:56:34 P.M. Central Daylight Time, editorjenniferleigh@... writes: I know I'm lucky, but so is he. He has been enslaved...
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Jen yes you are right, he is lucky to see the error in his ways, so many will not look within. Kim In a message dated 9/5/2008 11:56:34 P.M. Central Daylight...
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