OK, at the risk of scaring off newbies ...

Wetzler has worked with lots of women who aren't able to disengage from P/A men,
so he knows nobody will buy a book titled "Leave the P/A PITA already!" It's
all packaged to be picked up and read by women who can't imagine leaving. BUT
in every section, there are gentle nudges toward evaluating honestly whether the
P/A can truly give you what you need to be happy.

Have you read Mira Kirshenbaum's _Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay_?
Though that's no cure-all - I bought it before I even married Bozo, and used it
to convince myself to stay with him. Ugh.

M.