it is so difficult dealing with a p/a person-- it is the most
frustrating relationship i have ever been in.. he seems like such a
nice guy and he is in some ways but when he does not get what he wants
- instead of telling me he would give me the silent treatment--- for
weeks sometimes-- i always thought he had communication issues-- but i
now believe there is more to it-
he possesses a lot of the behaviors of a p/a person. we are not
together now it has been a week and a half..he said he does not know
anymore what he wants but wants to remain friends-- well i can not be
friends .. -- and it is all my fault --his biggest complaint is that
i am not affectionate enough and i have not moved in with him.

i always felt guilty about not taking things to the next step and
move in-- but i know now that i was scared and did not feel safe
moving in with him. -- we have broken up before- he has pulled the
silent treatment with me so many times i can not even count-- and i
have caught him talking to other women on the phone he said they were
friends-- well why didn't i know them? and i never made any new male
friends that he did not know about since i have been with him-- - why
did i put up with it and stay as long as i did? i am still trying to
figure things out? but when you are with someone who can not
communicate about anything it is hard-- he would not even argue about
anything-- he would just shut down- pout,sulk, say mean hurtful things
are just plain IGNORE ME..