In a message dated 6/11/2007 1:38:21 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
editorjenniferleigh@... writes:

You know, relationships are always difficult. And men can be awful. I have
to wonder-- is it really better being in a bad relationship than being alone?
If so, why?


I have heard many talk about this over the years. Why is a good question.
For me it was fear of being alone, finances, and there are a few good things
about him that I cling on to. He has sat in the hospital with me for days
and even cried over me for a few weeks. He has also been there for me for many
other bad times. I think all PA have few good qualities. It is the
everyday living that is difficult. We actually do not do anything together any
more
and watch different TV shows so we are in the same house but not always
close by. I have accepted his lack of work and lack of irresponsibility and
the
occasional issues where when we are spending time together that there are
still control issues. Is it a way I want to live? He does his own thing, I do
mine, he can be extremely difficult



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