I was complacent with the PA until I found out my hb was back to porn. Then I
said, all righty, it all needs to be dealt with or you're out. My hb is back
into recovery and has found how closely tied PA and SA are.
I don't like it when anyone demands I apologize and can't in good faith do that
to my hb. However, if he's inappropriate (which happens less and less) I walk
away for a time out. My hb will want to talk sooner or later and I say, not
until you apologize. By then, he's quieted down and apologizes.
Jen


To: passiveaggressivesupport@...: Equiskr@...: Mon, 1
Oct 2007 19:53:06 -0400Subject: Re: [Passive Aggressive Support] Re: Anyone
still here?




I have stopped arguing with my bf, because it gets absolutely no where. I have
been trying to get myself finically stable and then spring it on him...I call it
complacent. He actually called me a cu*t the other day because I was in a bit of
a bad mood. Then he told me to apologize for being in a bad mood. My mood was
not that bad in my perspective. Anyhow I did apologize because he would be
relentless until I did and just was not in the mood...has anyone become
complacent? Kim************************************** See what's new at
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