i am a very happy person because i've stopped needing anything from my hb.
believe it or not, he is now wanting attention from me. and we are in therapy.
don't let your hb hurt you, get a real full life, a job, friends, a good
exercise program, and then wait and see. you never know, he might start to feel
lonely and want to change. if so, great. if not, still great. you're not
hurting anymore.
good luck and God bless
Jen

i_luv_pugs2003 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
I've been married to my PA for 15 years. I know I can't change him and
that I need to change my reactions. It's the latter that is giving me
problems.

Today is a down day for me. I'd like a happy day once in a while. It's
hard for me not to take the evasiveness, put downs, he doen't remember
saying that and the turned-back-on-me's as the problem personally.

Does that make sense??

Thanks,
K





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