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In a message dated 5/16/2007 1:55:32 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
monicaashton@... writes:

P.S. That book you're reading, Living With the Passive Aggressive Man
is great. My guy actually is reading it also. He actually suggested
it! If your husband's willing, maybe that might be something to
suggest...that he read the book, but only if he's willing.

I am going to pick up the book, sounds good. Eric will never read it. In
fact I think he has been reading my email and insulted I belong to this
group...he has started to call me passive aggressive. I may have some PA
tendencies, however it is reacting to his behaviors in which I know is very
wrong to
do...hard not to. The best thing to do is not to react to a PA man. I try
to walk away and he will not let me. I try to drive away and he physically
stops me. He always starts some kind of issue, blaming for everything, not
taking on any responsibilities, went bankrupt and seems to be heading there
again. Becomes addicted to one hobby after another. Never finished anything,
actually have never seen him finish one thing in the 15 years I know him, he
does keep down a job makes good money and is at work on time which I know is
good for a PA man. Kim





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In a message dated 5/16/2007 1:55:32 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, monicaashton@... writes: P.S. That book you're reading, Living With the Passive...
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May 16, 2007
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I'm not sure my husband would read the book. I don't have a copy of it but I could ask him if he would be willing before I get a copy of it. I also have some...
Sun Ye
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May 17, 2007
12:43 pm

Hi Sun Ye, Good that you were able to vent on this e-list rather than on him. I know it's easier said than done not to get into a fight. Don't beat yourself...
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May 17, 2007
6:16 pm

I know everything you said is true and it's just hard for me to detach myself since we have kids. People say I'm too optimistic but I'd rather be optimistic...
Sun Ye
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May 17, 2007
9:19 pm

Personally, I recommend you change yourself, which is all anyone can really do anyway. You sound like in not backing down you're angry. Though it's tempting...
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May 17, 2007
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In a message dated 5/17/2007 8:34:14 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, sunyeturner@... writes: He's not actually willing to get help. He knows he has a...
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In a message dated 5/17/2007 8:45:05 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, sunyeturner@... writes: I also have some PA tendencies but I think everyone does at...
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Monica, well said! Kim ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com. [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
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