My xbf that I have RO against hasc cancer. I didn't find out until
the day of court when he used that to get off.I'm not sure if he's
an 'N' but he is passive aggressive, a manipulator and loves playing
mind games.Also enjoys bragging about talking with the x that he
cheated on me with.He spends hours on the internet talking on dating
sites looking for sex. What I don't understand is this: We talked
last week, he's been out of my home for a year now, he's basically
homeless, living in a rundown shack with some ppl he met at the
homeless shelter[they kicked him out for using the churchs computer
to look for women].He's worried about his lung cancer tho I think
he's still smoking.We held hands. He said that he had nothing to eat
that day, I took him to get burgers and a shake and for just having
nausea after his chemo, he ate like a horse.I went to church with
him the next day, all was great, he introduced me to his roomate, we
had a good time. I thought I was special again.We talked about him
not walking to his appointments, that I would drive him so he could
use his strength to get well, he agreed. The next day was his
radiation appt.My daughter got sick that same morning, I was running
around trying to get her to the doc, but I still had time to pick
him up.He calls me and says 'take care of the kids, I'll be ok" THAT
means 'I'm jealous' so he started walking~I found him, took him to
the appt, asked him to call me when he got out.2 hours went by , I
was on my way home, saw him walking about 2 miles from where the doc
was. He ignored my beeps.Guess he doesn't want my help. WHAT DID I
DO WRONG?? He said that he was just trying to help me. He knows this
stuff drives me NUTS! He has the cancer, I was trying to help him.
He says 'just forget about me'.And things like 'you need a man that
will be around for awhile'Also, he had been posting lies about me on
psycho sites, saying that I was HAPPY that he had cancer, that I
wished it on him.WTF??? So I wrote back some things about him and
said those comments would stay on there until he took mine off, well
he read my comments a week later, then got mad at me. I told him I
said I would take it off when he took his off. Now he has me on
there as MS GOD, instead of my name.I talked to him last 2 days
ago,and he said after he saw what I had written he knew that I
wanted him out of my life and that he wished me the best and that
when I moved maybe he'd see me again if I ever came back to town.
WTF happened to the loving guy I had just gone to church with 2 days
before??? He was ALWAYS that way, ONE good day, then HELL. *HELP*
I'm so sorry for being a pest.