My husband admitted to me today that the reason he would not act on
the issues WE TALKED about with his sons is because what concerned me
was not an issue to him, that he did not have it in his heart to
address the issues.

Same with his dad visiting, he does not feel he can tell his dad not
to come. He said that right now his dad might be vulnerable.

Who cares about my feelings, my thoughts, my concerns, my needs, or
even what I am going thru? I was put thru the ringer with his boys and
he NEVER took a stand to defend me. And WHO might be vulnerable??

I am so hurt but my hands are tied, no matter what I do or say it
won't be heard because he doesn't care. His family is more important.
I wasted 17 years of my life caring and trying.

Annette