--- In passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com, "darlamix"
<darlamix@...> wrote:



>Please if you find out let me know , I've been in a mess for 27 yrs
total, 24 married to this one, and until I started reading up a few
days ago, I thought it was me,,, I was CRAZY, or so he has my kids
thinkin as much as he does me.....



> Hello all,
> I have to admit, I have done some crazy, and strange things, that
> aren't like me in the last few relationships I have had. My
partners
> were chronic liars, and cheaters, and passive agressive and
> controlling. The last said I push and he caves. In other words I
was
> assertive, and stood up for myself. I have let go of him completely
> now, our last meeting was just another session of mixed messages.
He
> apologizes the next day when I ask him to clearify for me, and
this is
> when he says, I push and he caves and........... get
> this...............he says, this is not healthy for me.
> The man admitted he was passive agressive the night before. Passing
> the blame on me. It is not healthy for HIM?????????????????????
> I think he needs to study what it is. I just can not believe the
> effect this man has had on me. The short time I knew him, is still
> hanging on me like a ghost. I can not stop the thoughts about it
from
> going around and around and around my head. I am filled with
> depression and anger. How the heck do I get out of this
trance???????
>